June
1, 2016
Written
by Maximus Peperkamp, M.S. Verbal Engineer
Dear Reader,
Following Skinner’s example, behaviorists
differentiate between rule-governed and contingency-controlled behavior. To the
reader who read some of my writings, it should be clear that Noxious Verbal
Behavior (NVB) is rule-governed behavior whereas Sound Verbal Behavior (SVB)
maps onto contingency-controlled behavior.
The verbal discriminative stimuli
which specify the contingency for NVB keep us in our place of the social
hierarchy. Breaking the rules has immediate punitive consequences, such as social
disqualification. Not accidentally, verbal behavior governed by rules is
insensitive to the contingency in which it occurs.
Stated differently, rule-governed
behavior requires us to be on automatic pilot; we stop for the red traffic
light and we get moving on green. Our rule-governed behavior is not as
effective in talking as it is in traffic situations. Preconceived notions about
how we should talk dampen and limit our conversations.
The NVB speaker, whose speech is
governed by rules, isn’t and can’t be present in the moment. Moreover,
preconceived talking prevents both the speaker and the listener from being
alive. Consequently, in NVB there is hardly any turn-taking and the speaker and
the listener remain separate, that is, their speaking and listening behavior
cannot harmonize.
In NVB the speaker is simply not
open to the listener, who is not considered to be important as a speaker by the
speaker. The speaker’s SVB, on the other hand, is under direct control of its
consequences, which are mediated by the listener. The SVB speaker stimulates
the listener to become a SVB speaker.
As the speaker and the listener
take turns during SVB, they mutually reinforce each other. My insistence on the
SVB/NVB distinction, which always increases SVB and decreases NVB, came about
because of my analysis of contingencies which others have not yet fully explored.
My ability to create an environment
in which SVB can occur and can continue, which is based on my skill to evoke
experimentation in my students and clients who experience and acknowledge SVB’s
beneficial effects, was based on a hunch I had, which proved to be correct.
Initially, I didn’t and couldn’t even
believe it myself. I felt so energized and positive about the sound of my own voice
while I spoke that I contemplated what would happen if I could continue to
speak with that sound and if others would be able to do the same?
Talking while listening to myself with others, who also listen to
themselves while they speak, turned out to be much more complicated than talking
out loud by myself. As it was much easier
to do, I ended up talking with myself many times. Each time I did that I effortlessly
synchronized my speaking and listening behavior again.
Due to the NVB public speech I had
been exposed to and was conditioned by while growing up, I experienced a lot of
NVB private speech. When I started listening to myself I had no idea about
behaviorism and about the fact that my behavior was caused by my environment.
While listening to myself again
and again I noticed that there occurred a separation between me as speaker and
me as listener. It was only when I learned about radical behaviorism that I
realized it was about the different rates of my speaking and listening behavior.
The rift between our speaking and
listening behavior is always preceded by the separation created by a speaker
and the listener who is not that speaker in NVB. During SVB, even if it mostly only
occurred by myself, my speaking and listening behavior became joined again.
By listening to myself I regained a
sense of wholeness and I experienced the reunification of my speaking and
listening behavior. I was able to stop my mechanical rule-governed behavior and
explored the contingency which allowed me to feel alive and conscious again.
In addition to
self-experimentation, I explained as often as possible to others the link
between voice, the vocal discriminative stimulus and our way of talking. I created
the contingency for novel, exciting, effective verbal behavior. From a wealth of
positive experiences my understanding of the SVB/NVB distinction emerged.
It was clear from the beginning that
I was only able to explain how SVB worked to those who were willing to
experiment and verify with me. Guided by my experience and by the feedback from
others, to my own amazement I discovered the objective reality of what I was
doing.
The development of my
contingency-based logic, which is, of course, entirely different from
rule-governed logic, began some thirty years ago and was validated by those who
experimented with me. By now also various behaviorists have found for
themselves how SVB works!