May 21, 2015
Written by Maximus Peperkamp, M.S. Verbal Engineer
Dear Reader,
Today’s writing is my fourth response to “Behaviorism and the Stages of Scientific
Activity” by J. Moore (2010). By reading and studying this paper, it became
clear to me that my theory of Sound Verbal Behavior (SVB), unlike most
mentalistic theories, has passed through three different developmental stages. It is true for SVB that “verbal processes at the earlier stages establish a large degree of
stimulus control over verbal processes at the later stages.” My “theoretical verbal behavior” is parsimonious and not controlled by any “mischievous factors.” I am
not using metaphors to make my point and if I do, I only do so to
demonstrate how distracting they are and should be avoided In
spite of rejection, my insistence on vocal verbal behavior, on
talking, as well as my resistance against and my problems with,
writing, protected me from falling victim to mentalism, even before I knew anything about behaviorism. Listening to one self while one speaks
dislodges any false notion of having a self.
The fact that neither the speaker nor the listener has a behavior-causing inner self, is the most revolutionary characteristic about SVB and is also the reason why I
have experienced so much rejection from others. However, those few people who, due to their own behavior history, were ready to engage in
the conversation that dissolves any sense of self, they reinforced me. When I discovered SVB, I
called it “Language Which Creates Space” as I was involved with people who
practiced meditation. I was an oddball in the company of esoteric people, who
didn’t want to talk with me. As long as we were meditating, things were fine,
but when meditation came to an end and we were drinking tea, someone would say
something I experienced as disturbing as it seemed to destroy
the meditation. The moment someone opened their mouth we were back to square one and our usual arguments and petty talk would
come right back. People reluctantly talked about ‘being in their mind’
and were supposedly in the process of ‘getting out of their mind.’ They all agreed that talking itself made us ‘identify with our mind’ and weren’t into it.
Since I was, because of the family in which I grew up in, into talking, I was frustrated when the meditation would go away because people were talking or because they didn’t want to talk. My
notion of meditation was that there must be a way of talking, which
creates and maintains it, but my attempts failed and I only got into arguments.
People were getting tired of me and I was getting tired of them and I was
thrown out. I got frustrated as meditation was absent in my
conversations with others. Alone and rejected, I began to talk out loud with
myself. Because I had been trained as a classical tenor singer, I was used to
listening to myself, but this time I was listening to the sound of my voice
while I was speaking. At that time this was a totally new experience for me.
To my surprise, when I listened to the sound of my voice
while I talked with myself about my depressing situation, I felt peaceful and calm. My attention for the sound of my voice made me aware of what and how I
was talking. I was saying to myself: this is how I want to talk! I felt
relieved and reassured that I was able to talk like this with others. All I
needed to do was to listen to my voice while I speak. However, this turned out
to be extremely difficult, even almost impossible. Again and again, I lost my calm voice
and was speaking with a voice which sounded upset, agitated, frustrated,
fearful and negative. I wanted to speak with my happy voice, with a sound which
made me feel at ease, meditative and focused, but I lost it again and again and
again. Each time this happened, I went back to my attic and tried to listen to
myself and each time, I found back again the sound which made me completely
quiet.
One friend, who was willing to listen to me, let me
explain how I wanted to talk with him. He liked it and encouraged me to
continue with it. Because of him I got a couple people together with whom we
explored the process of listening while we speak. In SVB each speaker is
listening to him or herself while he or she speaks. In SVB the speaker is his
or her own listener, but other listeners can also hear if and when the speaker
is listening to him or herself while he or she speaks. When the speaker is no
longer listening to him or herself, while he or she speaks, he or she is
producing Noxious Verbal Behavior
(NVB), in which the speaker separates him or herself from the other
communicators, who are his or her environment, by assuming the existence of an
inner self.
Being disconnected or isolated from others is a negative emotion and causes us
to speak with a sound which is experienced the listener as an aversive stimulus. Oneness
with the environment, by contrast, based on feelings of safety,
well-being and support, makes us produce an appetitive sound, with which
everyone agrees. When the speaker listens to him or herself while he
or she speaks, others agree with 100% inter-observer reliability that he or she
is listening to him or herself while he or she speaks. Others feel the
relaxation of the speaker when he or she produces SVB, but others also feel the
sense of stress, anxiety and fear, when the speaker again produces NVB.
SVB is vocal verbal behavior which is no
longer controlled by the mentalistic belief in a behavior-managing self. SVB makes us and keeps us
conscious. NVB, on the other hand, makes us and keeps us unconscious and causes
us to repeat verbal patterns, such as our belief in the inner causation of
behavior, repeated in an automatic manner. NVB takes
the life out of us and makes us talk in a mechanical, predetermined manner. SVB stimulates awareness and
enables us to pay attention to whatever we focus our attention on, but NVB
demands, holds and drains our attention and makes us feel depleted.
Our voice is the independent variable and what we say is the dependent variable; a change in our voice changes the conversation. Skinner wrote “When I said “explanation”, I simply meant
the causal account. An explanation is the demonstration of a functional
relationship between behavior and manipulable or controllable variables.” SVB and NVB is not only “a system of behavior in terms of which the facts of science can be
clearly stated”, it is also a system that can be tested experimentally. The
fact that we haven’t done that doesn’t mean we can’t or shouldn’t do it. "Third-stage theorizing" doesn’t depend on anyone’s confirmation.
Like Skinner, I say “my reinforcers
were the discovery of uniformities, the ordering of confusing data, the
resolution of puzzlement.” Most certainly, my theory of SVB doesn’t “include elements that are not expressed in
the same terms and cannot be confirmed with the same methods of observation and
analysis as the facts they are said to address.”