No Way,

 

I am not sorry, there is no way I can help you! If you want to have Embodied Language (EL), you’ve got to stop your own Disembodied Language (DL). No way, I will ever deal with your nasty DL. No way, anyone is able to get done, what you have constantly refused to do for yourself.

 

There is no way, anyone with EL is ever going to be able to have any conversation with anyone who has DL. The two never meet. There is no way, to defend the stupidity, the superficiality, the ignorance, which goes on in the name of our common, usual, phony, unnatural, insensitive way of talking – DL – in which everyone keeps being upset, that nobody is listening to each other, but everyone is unconscious about the fact that nobody is listening to themselves.  

 

No way, means, under no circumstances. There is no way, in which EL can occur under the circumstances in which only DL can occur. If we talk about whether a speaker listens to him or herself, while he or she speaks or not, we are talking about two different circumstances. In other words, listening to ourselves while we speak, positively changes our individual situation, but in no way can it ever change someone else’s situation. There’s no way for anyone with DL, to understand EL, in the same way, that there is no way for anyone with Russian to understand Chinese.

 

Someone, who speaks Russian, knows he or she is speaking Russian. Someone who speaks Chinese, knows he or she speaks Chinese. The Russian speaker is used to hearing Russian and the Chinese speaker is used to hearing Chinese. Similarly, the DL speaker is used to hearing DL and the EL speaker – ideally speaking – is used to hearing EL. However, there’s no way, in which anyone can totally undo or extinguish the history of conditioning, we all have, with DL. The best we can do, is become aware of it and stop DL as much as possible. If we do that, there is no way, we favor – as we have done – our dreadful history with DL, because we want to have EL.

 

There is no way, in which a couple of brief moments of listening to ourselves while we speak, is going to counteract our long history of conditioning with DL. There will only be re-conditioning – in which we can identify and stop our DL – and counter-conditioning – in which we are able to have ongoing EL – if those, who can have EL, meet, talk and mutually reinforce each other’s EL. As with any other language, if there are no more speakers, who are speaking and sharing this language together, it will die. Likewise, if more and more people would engage in EL, instead of DL, DL would no longer occur. EL, the language of the individual, is mankind’s future, but DL, the language of the group, is outdated and is in a death-struggle. 

 

No way, EL is some ideal, to be strived for. Surely, EL and DL occur within every language, in each culture. Thus, DL and EL are cross-cultural or universal, they basically signify the verbal expression of negative or positive experiences. This is how language works. It is interesting to know, that lofty attempts at creating a universal language, Espiranto – which translates in English: one who hopes – have failed, since nobody was speaking it. However, every human being already knows DL and EL, even though, with our DL, there was no way, to have the conversation, in which we could – and would – become clear about this crucially important biological-psychological fact.

 

There is no way, any psychologist, actor, philosopher, religious leader, politician, journalist, monk, therapist, economist, follower, influencer, satanist, programmer, writer, drug addict, porn-star, bully, scientist, celebrity, professor, tyrant, teacher, holier-than-thou, liar, pervert, race-bater, lawyer, authority, stand-up comedian, mother-fucker, desperado, transgender, pro-Hamas protester, asshole, criminal, snake-oil-salesman, sooth-sayer, poet, musician or vagabond is going to be able to retain their identity, if they engage in EL. And, of course, there is also no way, we will ever be able to address, let alone, solve our problems with our DL. Our overrated, attention-demanding identity has always been our biggest communication problem.  

 

Although there is, as people used to say with DL, no way, in which East and West shall ever meet, there surely is a way, to become cognizant about these two ways of dealing with language. By simply speaking alone with our self and by listening to the sound of our voice, we start to admit and acknowledge the great difference between, when we don’t listen to ourselves while we speak and engage in DL and when we do listen to ourselves and engage in EL. When our DL stops, our EL begins and each time we forget to listen while we speak, we fall back in DL and our EL has stopped.

 

There is no way, in which it is possible for words or sentences, to occur inside of our body. Go and ask any neuroscientist, if he or she has ever found any language in the brain. No way, there can exist inner speech. Also, there is no way of knowing, what is on your so-called mind or what anyone else is thinking, unless we have said or written something about it. Moreover, unless we have said or written it, we cannot hear or read it. There is no way – just stop it! – we can hear our so-called inner voice or the imaginary voice of some higher power, deity or soul. All of this is nonsense, the result of DL, in which we don’t speak, to be able to listen to ourselves. Those, who have tasted the difference between EL and DL, but who have backed out on talking with me, want to hang on to their childish, fear-fantasies of DL. In that sense, what is called trauma, is mostly just ego.      

 Better Than Fantasy,

 

Embodied Language (EL) is better than fantasy. You keep having the latter, because you don’t know how to have the former. You can’t have EL as long as you haven’t accepted, understood and applied, the difference between your Disembodied Language (DL) and EL. Unless you stop your DL, you can’t have EL. Once you know the difference between your DL and your EL, you will know, your EL is better than your DL.

 

Unconsciously, everyone wants to have EL, but they don’t know how to have it. In effect, they continue to have DL imagining that it is EL, but they are merely living in a fantasy. Surely, such a fantasy is afforded by our ineffective use of our language, as in DL, we don’t listen to ourselves while we speak and, consequently, we believe in inner language, so-called thoughts or mind.

 

I feel better than ever, because of my ongoing EL and my ability to stop my DL. It is still a revelation to me, I am really not the person, I believed to be. With my educational and employment background in psychology, I have for a long time viewed myself as someone who was helping others, but I have left this fantasy. I don’t care people engage in DL and as a result do horrible things to each other and themselves. I don’t wish anyone to go to hell, as I know, they already live in it, with their DL.

 

They say, there’s no place is better than home, but we can never be ourselves with DL. When someone says that someone else, supposedly, thinks they are better than others, they have always said something, which made the other person, supposedly, think, but also say – usually behind their back – they were, supposedly, thinking they were better than them. In other words, in DL, we are always saying, that we or others are thinking something – which we are actually saying – because in DL, we are unable to say it. Whatever we say we are, supposedly, thinking is always what we have been saying. Obviously, the latter is better than the former, because the former isn’t true, but the latter is.

 

Reasoning with EL is simple, but with DL, we are incapable of formulating something presumably complex – our communication – into something simple. Words, like numbers, have meaning, but in DL, we are manipulatively messing around with the meaning and everything starts to get totally confusing and messed up. 2+2= 4 is said to be correct, good, right or valid, but 2+2=5 is considered to be incorrect, bad, wrong, invalid. I don’t think – with EL – I am better than others, who have DL, but I certainly know something, which others don’t know but claim to know.

 

When someone, who, previously, was feeling bad, is now feeling better, we say, that he or she is in better spirits. This is total nonsense, as we could all see and hear, he or she was unwell. He or she wasn’t having a hard time or, as we say, a bad day. However, with stupid DL, we can never address what is really going happening and so, we use these euphemistic expressions, to, indirectly, describe what, supposedly, is going on. To have real relationship, however, we must be open, direct, honest and sincere. Fantasy doesn’t cut it and this is why we have so many problems.

 

Only spoken communication, in which we abandon DL and have EL, improves relationship, which, as of yet, is in a profound crisis. Due to technology, we can no longer beat around the bush, as our lies are recorded and on record. Books or texts don’t make us any better or wiser. We can’t study our way into living better lives. This is the big hoax of psychology. Freud or Jung or hot shots, keep telling us something important about ourselves, which is so much better than what we can tell ourselves. This is an enormous falsehood. DL removed us so far from ourselves, that we prefer to listen to others, rather than talk with and listen to ourselves.  

 

What do you mean, when you say, you like to be better with this person, than with that person? You feel something within your own skin, which can only be properly addressed, if you listen to yourself while you speak and have EL. Most likely – albeit unconsciously – you can actually already have some EL with such a person, who doesn’t make you feel threatened and stressed. It is astonishing, that we haven’t acknowledged the great difference between DL and EL already. Every intelligent person should speak about it.

 

We all know a computer can do some tasks better than a person, but no computer will ever be able to have EL, only living human beings can. Similarly, EL cannot be acted. Our infatuation with acting, films, movies, written books, texts, social media or visual stimuli, is the result of our usual way of talking – DL – in which we don’t listen to ourselves, while we speak. We are living in an increasingly noisy world, because we are expected to block out and not pay attention to what we are hearing. With EL, we hear, the DL-emperor has no clothes.

 

Fantasy or wishful thinking isn’t, as is often said, a defense mechanism, but it is our inability to stop our DL and to have EL. Yes, we lack the skill to be able to produce EL and we are helplessly stuck with our dumb, tiring, blunt, insensitive, repetitive, coercive, unnatural DL. Yet, technology shows us the consequences we still refuse to see, if we would listen to ourselves while we speak. Thus, we cannot escape the devastating results of our unscientific, unrealistic way of talking. Whether we admit it or not, our DL is on its death bed, regardless of the fact, that we keep dragging our heels about our need for EL. Our fantasy is based to our need for authentic EL. We are only going to feel better about ourselves with ongoing EL. P.S. In case you still imagine, I am just making this up, check out my two You Tube channels: 1) Maximus Peperkamp and 2) maximuspeperkamp-hw8sw          

 Kort,

 

Kort gezegd, ongemerkt begeeft iedereeen zich iedere dag in Ontlichaamde Taal (OT). Ik zal kort antwoord geven waarom dat zo is: we luisteren niet naar onszelf, terwijl we praten. Ook wil ik even kort aanstippen, dat al onze problem, die wij ervaren, worden veroorzaakt en in stand gehouden door onze OT en zouden kunnen worden opgelost door Belichaamde Taal (BT).

 

Wat BT betreft, hebben wij allen slechts een kort geheugen, maar met OT blijven wij ouwe koeien uit de sloot halen. Kort voordat wij BT kunnen gaan hebben, zullen wij eerst alle tijd en aandacht moeten besteden, aan het feit dat wij zelf onze eigen OT volledig moeten stoppen.

 

Ook zullen wij meerdere malen, kort na elkaar, met elkaar in gesprek moeten zijn geweest, zodat onze BT wederzijds bekrachtigt kan worden, want zonder die bestendiging, zal onze BT slechts van korte duur zijn en vallen wij onwillekeurig weer terug in ons oude verhaal met OT. Ook al doet iedereen in OT heel naar en kort af, er lijkt nooit een einde te komen aan het gebruikelijke gezijk, gekanker, gejammer, geouwehoer and gezift.

 

Bij bejaarde stelletjes is het vaak zo, als de een de pijp uit gaat, dat kort daarna ook de ander het loodje legt. Dit is een kort voorbeeld van hoe mensen – met OT – altijd leven voor elkaar, maar nooit voor zichzelf. Met OT is men altijd kort door de bocht. Omdat wij niet in contact zijn met onszelf, zijn wij voorbarig en ontbreekt het ons aan nuancering. In OT voelen wij ons te kort gedaan, maar worden wij ons niet bewust van wat wij zijn tekort gekomen. In BT maken wij korte metten met onze tekort komingen.

 

In OT zeggen wij tegen elkaar, laten wij het kort houden, maar we blijven maar door drammen. In BT zijn wij echter kort en duidelijk, omdat wij kunnen zeggen wat wij willen zeggen. Wij zijn, of we het nou toegeven of niet, kort gehouden door onze eigen OT en niet, zoals wij beweren, door andere personen. Soms hebben wij, heel even, omdat er zich een positieve situatie voor doet, een korte adem pauze van onze OT, maar het valt ons niet echt op, hoe onze BT tot stand kwam. Daarom is het, als wij soms toevallig wat BT kunnen hebben, altijd maar van korte duur en zijn wij niet in staat, om voort te gaan met BT.

 

Zodra wij de vaardigheid ontwikkelen, om naar onszelf te luisteren, terwijl wij spreken, dan valt het ons kort daarna op, dat onze voortgaande BT onze Taal Verlichting (TV) impliceert. Vanaf dat uitzonderlijke moment, hebben wij, kort en goed, altijd gelijk, omdat wij op correcte wijze over onszelf spreken en omgaan met onze taal.

 

Dit schrijven geeft ons een kort overzicht over het verschil tussen OT en BT. Uiteraard is dit eveneens een kort fragment van mijn BT, dat het beste hardop kan worden gelezen, zodat de lezer een korte, aangename, gerichte ervaring kan hebben, van het luisteren naar zijn of haar eigen stem. Wanneer het aldus mogelijk is, om een korte, maar krachtige, episode van BT te beleven, dan zijn wij in staat, om eindelijk toe te geven en te begrijpen, dat wij, vanwege automatische OT, schromelijk te kort schieten, in het spreken over wie wij zijn.

 

Met onze voortgaande BT kunnen wij – zoals het eigenlijk ook zou moeten – eindelijk heel kort zijn over moeilijke toestanden, conflicten, complicaties, dramas en tragedies, want we hebben al zoveel van ons leven verspild. Wij zullen, nadat wij het verschil tussen OT en BT erkennen, het nog maar heel kort over OT hebben. Het groeps-gedrag, OT, waarin wij telkens – verbaal – de hele boel kort en klein zijn blijven slaan, heeft geen enkele toekomst, want BT is de taal van onze individuele vrijheid.         

 Silence,

 

I have said so before and I will say it again: my silence is different from the imaginary silence of anyone, who still believes in inner language or in having thoughts or a mind. Whenever I don’t talk, don’t listen, don’t write or don’t read, I am totally silent, because I am without any language.

 

Those who know the difference between DL and EL, will stop their DL, because they prefer to have EL and they experience their silence as a result of their ongoing EL. In effect, they will know, their silence is created and maintained by the presence of their effective language, language which accurately describes who they are and what they experience. Those who engage in DL, however, view language and silence as incompatible, because DL describes their experience incorrectly. Consequently, in DL, silence means, the absence of language, but in EL, silence means, the presence of language.  

 

Interestingly, a very similar thing occurs with listening. In unconscious, automatic, unnatural DL, listening always only either seems to mean, listening to others or making others listen to you, but in EL, listening only means listening to yourself. Moreover, in EL, listening to yourself means listening to others, but in DL, listening to others means not listening to yourself. To be clear, in DL, we never listen to ourselves and in EL, we always listen to ourselves.  

 

Silence and listening are, of course, connected, but this connection is only becoming evident to us during EL, because it is obfuscated during our usual, insensitive, coercive, unintelligent DL. In EL, we realize, we are silent, and, yet, there is no urge to be silent. Stated differently, in EL, we no longer believe in becoming silent, because it is our self-nature, to be silent. In our conflicted DL, we are endlessly trying, to find peace and quiet, but we never succeed, since we believe ourselves to be the product of DL. Although we have been conditioned by DL, our self-nature hasn’t changed. Each night, in deep sleep, we are rejuvenated, as we are without language.

 

For those who begin to explore the difference between DL and EL, it is of great importance, to fully recognize – each time, when they don’t speak, listen, write or read – that there really is no language, no thought and no mind. Initially, due to our common history of conditioning with DL – when we don’t speak, listen, write or read – we still believe, that we have private speech, covert conversation or inner language, but if we manage to have ongoing EL, and, therefore, stop our DL a little longer, we become more and more sure, there really never were any words or sentences inside of our heads.  

 

Another fascinating aspect about silence, is that in EL, it continues, while we engage in language, – that is, while we speak, listen, write or read – but, also while we don’t engage in language. In EL, we understand, rationally, that we never go in or out of our silence, but in DL, we seem to be either going away from our silence or out of our silence, but seldom, if ever, into our silence.

 

When it is said, someone’s silence is worse than his or her anger, we refer to the so-called silence of DL. Also, if someone’s silence said volumes, we are dealing with DL. These two sayings are good examples, to make clear, that it is merely a way of saying. Likewise, having thoughts, a mind or hearing internal speech, is due to our habitual way of talking, in which we don’t listen to ourselves, which is DL.

 

When you say, that his or her silence lasted for a minute and then, he or she began to speak, you first didn’t hear him or her say anything, but then, you heard him or her say something. In both cases, you weren’t listening, because in both cases, you were – due to DL – assuming, imagining, believing, that he or she was quietly, deeply, mindfully, thinking something, which he or she, then, supposedly, expressed, as if covert language became overt. However, this person was simply relaxing his or her body, so he or she could speak. ‘Thoughtful’ speech is less noisy or coercive or emotional than our usual speech.

 

Only during DL can a silence be experienced as uncomfortable. The discomfort is always about the fact, that – although we don’t know about the difference between DL and EL – we don’t like DL and, unknowingly, prefer EL. When, in DL, someone, finally says something, he or she,  of course, broke the painful silence of DL. Yet, this so-called speaking up or speaking out, has never resulted in EL, as it always meant more of the same DL. Breaking the silence also indicates that we speak, in order not to feel what we feel.

 

The silence of our ongoing EL is our Language Enlightenment (LE). With EL, we are silent with and without language. Everything we say in EL dissolves and, therefore, we are continuously new. Moreover, in EL, our silence isn’t – as we say in DL – deepened, but it is renewed. In the same way, that what we say – in EL – is never the same, our silence is also never the same.      

 I Am Your Last Chance,

 

Although you probably believe I am exaggerating, I am your one and only chance, but also your last chance, to have Embodied Language (EL). Everywhere you go, you find people unconsciously engaging in treacherous Disembodied Language (DL), which is ruining everything in their lives. Yes, it sounds ridiculous, but unless you accept, I truly am your last chance, you’ll miss out on the best part of your life. No, I am not anyone’s savior, because you’ve got to clean up your own shitty act. Yes, you’ve got to stop your unintelligent DL. In this writing, I will tell you how to do that.

 

Talking out loud, alone, with yourself, about the things which are important to you, listening to the sound of your own voice and recognizing the difference between your own DL and EL, is your last chance, at achieving and maintaining your sanity. As you can see and hear, DL is escalating everywhere, and total chaos is upon us. In one way or another, you’ll be swept up in the destructive hype and madness of DL, if you yourself don’t stop it.

 

Of course, I am warning you. I know EL and you don’t. Moreover, I don’t have – like you – any doubts, about the devastating consequences of DL. You go on and on with your ugly DL, as if it means great things, but I say: you simply don’t know, how to have EL. You would like to have EL, but you lack that skill and you are, basically, incompetent, because you use your language incorrectly, as long you don’t listen to yourself while you speak. I am your last chance, because I am the only one to challenge you, to actually do the work, to stop your own stupid DL and then to talk with me, so that we can have EL with each other. I am the only person, you will ever meet, who does that and who can do that.

 

I have achieved my Language Enlightenment (LE), because I have ongoing EL. If you acknowledge, I am your last and only chance, to do something drastic, about what has been troubling you your entire life, then you will do as I say, not for me, but for yourself. Stopping your DL is an arduous task, because you go against the conditioning of all of mankind. Human beings have always been used to group-behavior – DL – which condemns individual behavior – EL – and have never been able to stop DL and continue with EL. Whether you believe me or not, I am the embodiment of that possibility. Yes, I have the final word on what is the most important issue of our time. I say, fuck all of you, experts, gurus and authorities, because you don’t know shit about the difference between your DL and your EL.

 

I am your last and only chance, to finally do what you have always wanted and longed to do, but couldn’t do, because you never paid attention to your use of your language, by speaking with yourself and by listening to yourself. You must stop your own DL, because only you can do it and then, you can speak with me and we will enjoy our EL and our LE together. Involvement with your own language, could be your mission for peace, your last chance at overcoming why you were always so troubled and tormented.

 

This writing, which encourages you, to stop your own DL, is your last chance, to return to yourself. You have done many useless things, which didn’t and couldn’t bring your clarity, because you never spoke with yourself, in your own words, with the sound, that you wanted to hear, about who you are and what is going on in your life. You couldn’t do this, as you were, like everyone else, conditioned to use language, to move away from yourself. To you, it seems as if your language is your thought or mind, which is happening without your consent, but you find, that this is not how language works, when you begin to listen to yourself. When you stop your DL and have EL, there is no inner language, as there is only voluntary, overt language and all problems of your imaginary mind are solved.  

 

I am your last chance, because I am, to my own surprise – because I have spent many years of studying, working in psychiatry and teaching psychology and nobody has shown any interest in what I have been saying – the only one, who is capable of saying, what I am saying. Yes, I am the authority and being open to my knowledge, is your last chance of being benefitted. There is definitely something to say for the wonderful possibility of being initiated into, ignited by and informed about, the true nature of your own language.  

 

I am your last chance, because I stimulate you, to have the courage, to oppose your history of conditioning. I am your last chance, as I know the difference between DL and EL, which is the same for every human being. In DL, you don’t listen to yourself while you speak, but in EL, you finally listen to yourself, while you speak. Stated differently, you can’t take care of yourself in DL, because you don’t take yourself seriously, but in EL, you care about yourself, because you stay in touch with yourself, because you listen to what you tell yourself with your own self-knowledge. Please, check out my You Tube channels: 1) Maximus Peperkamp and 2) maximuspeperkamp-hw8sw       

 No Ego,

 

Although I can be very polite, I have absolutely no tolerance for anyone, who still has Disembodied Language (DL). To me, the link between politics and Embodied Language (EL) and DL, is of utmost importance, particularly, the irrefutable fact, that Left-wing politics maps onto DL, while Right-wing politics maps on EL. While I know that people are ignorant about the DL/EL distinction, they do already know about the Left-wing/Right-wing distinction. I make use of that.

 

EL and individual freedom go hand in hand. Those who cannot wholeheartedly admit and say that, are not only hopelessly stuck in DL, but also refuse to be honest about their destructive, oppressive, Communist, Marxist, Socialist, Fascist, Anti-Semitic, Cancel-Culture, Gender-Ideology, Identity-Politics, Diversity-Equity-Inclusion (DEI) group-behavior, which, of course, is Left-wing.

 

In DL, we act as if nothing is personal, because we view taking it personal, as something that’s wrong, but in EL, everything is personal, because it is the truth of our own experience. This is why only in DL people say to each other: don’t take it personal! In EL, there is no difference between our politics and who we are, but in DL, people pretend, as if politics doesn’t have any connection with who we are and who others are, as individuals. This is why, in the name of their belief, historically, people have killed, without any remorse, millions of their fellow men. Moreover, they are still doing the same thing today. Yes, I claim it was always in the name of their DL.

 

I have basically broken off all contact with anyone who wants to continue with their DL. For instance, I don’t talk anymore with anyone of my family, as it became clear to me, that, apparently, it is perfectly okay for them, to expect me to behave in the way that they want me to behave, but nobody seems to even want to consider behaving in the way I want them to behave, towards me. It took me a very long time, to get clear on this. Although I always have felt rejected by my family, I didn’t want to reject them, but I had to, to be able to continue with my own EL.

 

We still don’t know anything about the difference between our DL and EL and that is why DL goes on everywhere, all the time, while EL is nowhere to be found. We don’t realize, we constantly engage in DL. This is why in, supposedly, polite conversation, we consider religion and politics, as forbidden topics. We further justify our, presumably, rational stance, by being the bigger, supposedly, wiser person, who, supposedly, accepts reality as it is, by distracting from the topic, with some phony, holier-then-thou bullshit, that we cannot expect to be reasonable about things, which were never acquired by reason.

 

In DL, people were taught and keep telling others, how to be a wonderful, magnanimous, person, who realizes, that he or she is not willing to be entangled with someone else, in one way or another. Also, it is presumably very important, to always recognize, that one isn’t always right and, therefore, one needs to give an apology, as much as receive one from others. As they say, it is better to set aside one’s ego and take a few minutes to apologize, than to have years of arguments and conflicts. This shows how we beat around the bush and never acquire EL, in which, surprisingly, we find out, we are always right. EL has nothing to do with false concepts, like ego or making or accepting apologies. DL contains our irrational beliefs, which inevitably were acquired while we grew up. Reason plays no part in DL. Only if we listen to ourselves, while we speak and explore our EL, do we become reasonable.          

  

I am convinced, politics plays an important role, in the fact that everywhere around the world - not just in America – we have DL, not EL. I cannot escape the impression, that although DL is at the basis of every culture, the opposite is also possible. Actually, I am convinced this is where the future lies for EL. And, it seems to me, EL will ultimately determine politics, because EL is the language of the future, not DL.  

 

I'm not imagining anything, because I know all too well what the current state of affairs is. It is as clear as day to me, Left-wing politics fits with our DL, but Right-wing politics fits with our EL. Anyone who is interested in EL, has to be able to acknowledge this, but those with unconscious DL, will behave according to their history of conditioning and never fundamentally change their old, troublesome point of view.

 

I am happy to say, I have given up trying, to make it clear to others, that they have DL, as they will have to do this themselves. I am only interested in the progress of EL. If I notice others aren’t getting it, I withdraw from the one-way street interaction. It is impossible to have EL and adhere to policies which go against individual freedom. Likewise, it is also impossible to have EL, if one still lives in the illusion of being a Jew, Christian, Muslim, Hindu, atheist, or someone, who believes to be important, because of meditation, consciousness, sensitivity, creativity, education, weapons, science or economics. Who we believe to be is always tied to our DL. I don’t believe I have EL, because I have it and that is my Language Enlightenment (LE). EL has nothing to do with faith.

 

I have nothing to say and therefore I can say what I really want to say. I always start with nothing and speak and write only from there. Left-wing politics is the biggest obstacle to individuality and to EL and anyone who has listened to themselves, should be able to fully admit, that this is unquestionably true. Only capitalism – no other worldview – has really  enriched humanity and has resulted in individuals being given rights in Democratic Western societies. However, all the enemies of capitalism are and have always been, against the freedom of the individual.

 

DL is the history of mankind, in which our group behavior has repeatedly, violently, suppressed and obliterated our individual behavior. It is an indisputable fact our EL could only have emerged from prosperity created by capitalism. I am a product of the free society, where I happen to have grown up and realize, others weren’t as fortunate as me. I foresee the possibility, that with our EL we will create a different, peaceful, orderly society, based on our prosperity and well-being.

 

My view is realistic. Everything we have created and maintained with DL will disappear and be replaced by something better, which fits with EL. Only the behavior that matches EL will remain, which means our lives will be simpler and much more satisfying. Right now, everyone experiences how everything only becomes more difficult and complicated. This is the inevitable consequence of our unconscious participation in and approval of DL. There is great pretense about simplicity and being at ease in DL, but these empty slogans have no support in reality. With DL, we are told something, which is not true, but we believe it, because others believe it too. This is our historical group-behavior, which, to this day, perpetuates the progression of our unnatural DL, but this finally comes to an end with our natural, ongoing EL.

 

 

 Proper Behavior,

 

For anyone to meet and talk with me, they will have to conduct themselves properly. I consider your usual, unconscious way of talking, in which you don’t listen to yourself, while you speak, to be improper and unacceptable. You keep having this improper behavior, because no one else is able to point out, that your habitual way of dealing with language, is ineffective, incorrect, inappropriate and unsuitable. I don’t teach you proper behavior, but demand it! You either stop your own Disembodied Language (DL), so you can have Embodied Language (EL) or I don’t even want to talk with you or have anything to do with you. In EL, nobody demands anything from anyone. That is the proper way of talking.     

 

If someone never had a proper job, we mean to say, that he or she never had a real job. When a painter doesn’t have the proper tools, he or she doesn’t have the right brushes, paint or canvas. To receive proper treatment, one has to go to a specialist, who is knowledgeable and capable. When my eyes are all blurry and I couldn’t see properly, I wasn’t able to see correctly. We had nodded and said hello to one another, but had never had a proper introduction, indicates we never paid careful attention to each other. You need to go on an appropriate or proper diet, if you want to lose weight. When we are talking about Malaria, Ebola or Cholera we distinguish or identify a group of diseases, that are proper to the tropics. Use of proper quotation marks connotes an academic fitness marked by nicety and discrimination. The underlined words give you an idea, why proper behavior is necessary.

 

In the same way, that proper detective work calls for an orderly investigation, proper speech requires the extensive exploration of what it is like, to listen to ourselves while we speak and to experience the gigantic difference between DL and EL. We only know the proper thing to say, to ourselves, when we engage in EL, but as long as we – because we were conditioned to listen to others – engage in DL, we are forever concerned, worried, anxious or stressed about,  whether we say the right things to others and we remain totally oblivious about speaking with ourselves in a self-regulating manner, with an authentic-sounding voice, we enjoy to listen to.

 

When you engage with me in ongoing EL, you will have the proper responses and we will both equally enjoy our conversation. In DL, it appears someone is always more important than the other. Consequently, the, supposedly, superior person, presumably, enjoys the conversation, while the, supposedly, inferior person has to behave politely, obediently, accommodatingly and properly. Interestingly, a powerful person or a top-dog, may express or show his or her negative emotions and is able to get away with his or her forceful, manipulative, inconsiderate DL, but the under-dog, is always expected to suck it up and maintain the illusion of positivity.

 

During EL, there is turn-taking and reciprocation of proper, positively-stimulating responses, but in DL, the so-called communication is a one-way street, during which one speaker is allowed and even expected to dominate the listener. Surely, such a listener isn’t even permitted to speak and must know his or her, supposedly, proper place. In a job, you should receive proper pay for your work, but in daily conversation – which is DL – you never receive proper attention. It is because your conditioning history, you accept this as normal, but once you find out about the difference between your DL and EL, you realize it is improper to be treated like that. Moreover, you fully understand, only EL, in which we listen to ourselves while we speak, is the proper way.

 

During EL, we don’t interfere with each other, because we are in touch with ourselves. This means, we have proper boundaries and, yes, we recover from our DL, in which there were never any proper boundaries. What people in DL – during our common, fear-based, chaotic, conversations – consider to be psychological problems, should be summarized as a complete lack of proper boundaries. Certainly, during DL, we have improper boundaries, due to which we are unable to have honest, open conversations.

 

Under proper circumstances, our EL will flow naturally and effortlessly. I not only know, but I also create and maintain these circumstances and anyone, who comes to talk with me, must trust me, to guide their behavior. I immediately notice if anyone resists me and I don’t tolerate anyone’s DL. I expect you to stop your own DL and I will reject you, if you come with your DL to me. I do this, as it is the proper thing to do.

 

If you behave properly to me, you will be able to recognize, the proper feelings, which belong to EL, are so nourishing, energizing, healing and enlightening. With EL, you will feel better than you have ever done before. Furthermore, it is proper for your EL and for these new experiences to continue and, yes, it is proper, to acknowledge, that the continuation of your EL reveals your Language Enlightenment (LE). With your ongoing EL, you can’t miss your LE, as you are the proper authority, to speak about this.