Closed,
Each time you
talk, you are either open or you are closed. When you are open, you know, that you
are open, because it is so different, from how everyone else is talking. It is
a sad fact, but most people are not open, while they speak. While they engage
in Disembodied Language (DL), they express negative emotions, but pretend to be
positive. Nothing ever gets through to anyone with DL, because they are and they
remain – their entire lives – closed off.
Since we don’t
know anything about the important difference between our DL and Embodied Language
(EL), we remain closed, even while we are trying to be open. My point here is,
that when we are open, we are not trying to be open. Everyone, who talks about being
open, is, unknowingly, closed. Stated, differently, even though we may talk a
lot and get a lot of stuff done, we are unconscious while we talk, because we
don’t notice, that we are not listening to ourselves, while we speak. Once we
begin to do that, we realize, in retrospect, we were used to not doing that, as
we were conditioned by DL, in which listening to others is, presumably, more
important than listening to ourselves. However, once we hear ourselves speak
and experience and enjoy, what it is really like, to be open and to engage in
EL, we feel liberated from our imprisoning habit of engaging in DL, as it is clear
to us, DL means: we were closed to ourselves.
When we engage
in EL, we are no longer closed, as we know for sure, we have stopped our DL.
Nobody has done this for us, as we accomplished this by ourselves, by listening
to ourselves while we speak. While it may seem a simple phenomenon – to listen
or not to listen, while we speak – it has far-reaching consequences. Certainly,
with mechanical, coercive, unnatural DL,
we miss out on everything, that is enjoyable in life, we have no appreciation for
beauty and can never be happy, because we remain closed.
There is one
way – one way only – which will change us, that is, by shifting from DL to EL.
Of course, this shift is needed, as often as we are becoming aware again, about
the sound of our voice, that represents our DL. We don’t like that sound, and,
therefore, we don’t want to hear it, and, therefore, we don’t listen to
ourselves, whenever we engage in DL. It is always after the fact, that we
realize, we were engaging in negative DL again, but, once we admit this, we can
have EL and continue with EL, as our DL has stopped. We know we can engage in EL, as
we feel relieved when we have it, because we are no longer closed. Moreover, we
hear ourselves, while we speak, in EL.
You can
bring more attention to the sound of your voice while you speak, after you have
closed your eyes. Keep on talking with yourself, with our eyes closed and tell
yourself, whether you like or dislike your own voice. If you like it, you will engage
in EL, but if you don’t like it, then you engage in DL. In other words, with EL,
you are open, but with DL, you are closed, which means, you are experiencing
negative feelings, like being stressed, anxious, frustrated, confused, lonely or
dissatisfied. When you engage in EL, you don’t feel any of that trouble. Even
if it is only for a few moments, with EL, you are without any problems. Why not
continue with it?
Although we all
have some vague semblance about the difference between DL and EL, because we
have never listened to the sound of our own voice while we speak, this difference
has never fully come into focus. It couldn’t, as it would require ongoing EL
and our unconscious EL already came to an end, before we got the chance to enjoy it and recognize how
it came about. It is self- evident, when we feel good, we sound good, but
whenever we feel fearful and threatened, we just sound terrible. Thus, when we
cannot feel safe, we remain closed and only when we hear – in the sound of our
own voice – that we are relaxed, calm and open, do we lower our guard.
Because I
have continued with my EL, I tell you from my own experience, that many doors have
closed for me, and I am glad it is that way. When I still had a lot of DL, I felt,
I had to go through these doors and each time I did, I got into bigger
problems. From a young age, it already seemed to me, many doors were closed. I
banged on them, begging for others to open them. Mostly, they wouldn’t open
them, but if they opened them, I later deeply regretted, I went through them. With
DL, everyone tries to make us do, what they want us to do, but as long as we
are following someone else’s directions, we are closed to ourselves. Only with our
EL, can we give ourselves the instruction, to stay with ourselves.
Luckily, I
no longer want to know about what goes on behind those closed doors. I know it
already and nothing is gained by me from repeating the endless tragedy, which
is the inevitable consequence of DL. I am, however, not closed to DL, as I can still
sense its insidious, disgusting, despicable, pretentious sound. It is
precisely, because I am open to both DL and EL, that I can tell, which is which,
and there is no other way. Of course, I prefer – as anyone, who knows the great
difference between DL and EL – EL, therefore, I stay, as much as I can, away
from DL. Initially, much to my own surprise, I succeeded only occasionally in
doing this, but now, it has become second nature.
I enjoy my
life, because my ongoing EL, protects me from all the DL out there. I no longer
undermine, hurt or wound myself, as I used to, with my DL. I can hear how
closed off everyone is with their tiring DL. Nothing new is said or achieved
with our DL and our predetermined,
effortful way of talking, invariably, always sets the stage for escalation, as
our problems remain unaddressed and, therefore, unresolved.
In our
closed, miserable, habitual way of life, with DL, we seek distraction, but we can’t
experience beauty, as we are not open to
it. Of course, our own beauty is only revealed to us, when we are at ease with
ourselves, when there is no distraction or fear. We create this, with the sound
of our voice, as we continue to express ourselves, to ourselves, with our EL.
In doing so, we, on the one hand, notice how strong our conditioning history with
DL is, which has taught us to remain closed to ourselves – we don’t listen to
ourselves while we speak – but, on the other hand, we also experience the beauty
and bliss of expressing our wellbeing, which is to say, we express with EL our
Language Enlightenment (LE).
Once we have
discovered, explored and enjoyed our own LE with EL, our DL, but also the DL of
others, is a closed matter. We have with our EL become a new human being. I
insist, there will be a day, people are going to massively acknowledge, they have
closed themselves off from, who they truly are with their DL. This day is not
far away, because, unbeknownst, to us, our DL is on its deathbed. There is no
way forward for mankind with DL, as it ultimately will result into
self-destruction. EL is the language of the individual, but DL is the language
of the group.
Individualism
is the only real future for mankind and only societies, in which individuals, not
only have the right, but also the opportunity, to have EL, can save the world
from immanent doom. I live in the United States and will vote for Donald Trump,
because he – and not Joe Biden – will do what it takes, to guarantee freedom of
speech, which is absolutely necessary to have EL. I immigrated – legally – to the
US from the Netherlands in 1999. Lying Biden is a frustrated, demented old man, the perfect personification of DL. Because the polls show, he is unpopular, he curses and berates his own staff, calls Trump a sick fuck and calls the president of Israel a bad fucking guy. President Biden is a creepy, embarrassing piece of shit. It is astonishing to me, to witness the
erosion of our individual rights under screaming dictator Joe Biden and victim-card playing left, who try to force all kinds of bullshit on We the People. Having said that,
I conclude by saying, we must have closed borders, so that our individualism
can be protected from the many foreign appalling aspects of DL.