August 7, 2014
Written by Maximus Peperkamp, M.S. Verbal Behaviorist
Dear Reader,
Whether we want to hear it or not, are willing to study it
or not, or are offended by it or not, it is a fact that all forms of behavior,
the verbal behavior of human animals included, are environmentally selected by its consequences.
Meaningless nature versus nurture debates continue only among those who don’t
know what they are talking about. It is not circular to insist that the
functional analysis of our verbal behavior is impossible without words, but that
our words depend on others.
It makes no sense to address functional relationships
without also considering the forms that emerge from them. Since one needs the
other, and since form can be verbal and nonverbal, we need a way of speaking
about the action that is our verbal behavior, which is based on the events that control
it.
What we say is a function of how we say it. In other words, when we are angry,
anxious, frustrated, sad, or terrified, when we have negative emotions, we
speak a different language than when we are safe, supported, happy, trusting,
peaceful and excited. We will not produce Sound Verbal Behavior (SVB) under the
former conditions, which will elicit Noxious Verbal Behavior (NVB). However,
scientific verbal expressions, which are the precise and sensitive descriptions
of verbal and nonverbal behavior, are less likely to occur when we experience negative
emotions.
The aversiveness of our negative emotions sets the stage
for Noxious Verbal Behavior (NVB) and makes us produce a sound with our voice
which is an aversive stimulus. In NVB, there is no necessity for describing our
negative emotions. Negative emotions go unchecked, because nothing in NVB stimulates
us to develop a language to accurately describe our emotions. In SVB, by
contrast, there is more a likelihood that we develop what we have normally
described as consciousness. Indeed, only when we experience positive emotions
will we be stimulated to talk about talking and think about thinking.
Paradoxically, we will only be able to meaningfully think
and talk about our negative emotions if we can stimulate, achieve and maintain our positive emotions again. Recognizing our negative emotions is important because they perpetuate NVB. Only
when negative emotions have been analyzed in SVB, can they be recognized as
NVB. During healthy development the positive emotions of care must come first.
Of course, there will always be exposure to negative emotions, but these can be
accepted, expressed and understood due to the conditioning of SVB. To the
extent that we have received SVB, we will be able to learn how to deal with our
negative emotions. Our inability to deal with negative emotions has nothing to do
with negative emotions itself, but with the absence of positive emotions. SVB
is based on the ongoing expression of our positive emotions.
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