August 17, 2016
Written by Maximus Peperkamp, M.S. Verbal Engineer
Dear Reader,
This is my nineteenth response to the paper “Radical
Behaviorism in Reconciliation with Phenomenology” by Willard Day (1969). I know
a wonderful philosopher from Romania. His name is Cristinel Munteanu. Every
couple of months we have a lengthy conversation by skype. He recently send me
his latest paper, which is about the linguist Eugenio Coseriu’s views about the
“Hermeneutical Principle of Trust”.
Cristinel and I always engage in SVB as we are both interested
in exploring the importance of trust during our interactions. Coseriu (1994),
who, like me, is “interested in the science and in the reasons of the speaker”
states “the speaker is always right, only that we have to establish from what
point of view he is right.”
Coseriu’s “Principle of Trust” is of great clinical
significance. No matter what the client says, they are always right from their point of view. To acknowledge that
opens the door to have SVB with anybody, even the most impaired.
It is a shame most radical behaviorists are stuck with behaviorist
jargon. I learned a lot from my friend Cristinel and from my mental health
clients and students. Their influence on me makes me a better behaviorist.
Day
was also inspired by the “Principle of Trust” when he stated “the verbal
community has taught a variety of practices by which we guess at relevant
factors, some more useful than others.”
Cristinel says “the speaker is right when he uses or creates
language, but he may be wrong when he tries to give “scientific” explanations
to language facts (when he turns into a “naïve linguist”). However, such a
belief proves admitting the same “principio de la confianza.”
We have to accept a person’s behavioral history as what caused
him or her to behave the way he or she does. So, “The case is not prejudiced
for an interest in what someone has to say about what he considers his own
private experience.” My client’s negative private speech has to be viewed in
context of NVB public speech form which it originates.
As NVB can’t accurately describe the reality it dissociates us
from it. The dissociation of the client in yesterday’s writing is now put into
proper context. The fact that NVB is our normal
way of communicating means that we are all in multiple ways dissociating from
the natural world, but for various reasons some are dissociating more than
others.
When I talk with people who are suffering mental health
problems it often strikes me that they are more aware than everyone else that
they dissociate. When they are given the chance to speak about their lives they
explain without holding back why they feel so disconnected. As this fact is not acknowledged this makes them
dissociate even more.
I agree with Day, who states “Verbal behavior constitutes by
far the most convenient avenue of access to anything that might be considered a
significant aspect of human knowledge, including one’s own knowledge of
himself.” However, it is not as simple as he makes it out to be. “If we want to
find out more about what a man is experiencing in a certain situation, one of
the simplest things to do is to try to get him to talk.”
We can only get a person to talk if we talk in such a way that
we as speakers don’t aversively affect the listener. The listener will only
become an overt SVB speaker if we facilitate SVB to him or her and invite him
or her, but he or she will not be willing to speak overtly, that is, he or she
will have covert NVB private speech, if we don’t realize that we approach him
or her with our NVB overt public speech.
Day seems to refer to this when he explains “Of course,
whether or not we trust the speaker depends upon the nature of the
environmental control exercised by him over our own behavior.” In NVB the
speaker controls the behavior of the listener with an aversive contingency.
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