Dear Reader,
This writing is about being serious and about being taken serious. Most people are completely incapable of taking me serious as they don’t know how to be serious. Even if they try to be serious, they can never be serious enough. The person who takes me serious must be very serious. To take me serious, you must be as serious as I am and I tell you, I am very serious.
All the nonsense people post on their face book are failed attempts at being taken serious. People would like to be taken serious, but they aren’t as they don’t take themselves serious. Although they would rather be taken serious, people who take themselves serious really don’t care at all if other people don’t take them serious. They will not stop being serious when other people don’t take them serious. To the contrary, they will take themselves even more serious when others don’t take them serious. Since they know what it is like to be serious, they enjoy being serious. People don’t like being serious as they don’t know how to be serious. They make it seem as if there is something wrong with being serious, but since they can’t be serious, there is actually something wrong with them.
There is seriously something wrong with you when you can’t be serious about the way in which you talk. If you keep having Noxious Verbal Behavior (NVB), your life will be full of problems. To acknowledge that you are again and again engaging in NVB is a serious matter. You can blame me for being too serious, but your rejecting me is not changing the fact that what I say is true. You are constantly involved in NVB and this makes your life into a stressful, unhappy mess.
Being serious requires that you acknowledge your interactions aren’t working. You aren’t interacting. How can you call it interacting, if you are always right, if you always know it better, if you keep feeling upset, worried, stressed, fearful, angry and resentful? How can you call it interacting, if you force others? How can you call it interacting, if you keep separating from others instead of connecting with them? What kind of interaction is that? Seriously, when are you ever going to get serious about your superficial, insensitive, boring and unintelligent way of life in which you keep pretending to be better than others?
Unless you get serious about your involvement in NVB, you will never have any ongoing Sound Verbal Behavior (SVB). You keep pretending to have SVB, but you are not having it. You keep pretending to be calm, friendly, positive, patient, open, understanding, empathic, accepting, in control, flexible, easy-going, loving, caring, smart, insightful, humble, spiritual, practical, capable, trustworthy, approachable, alert, truthful, hopeful, motivated, focused and reliable, but you are not. And, it is really bad you keep pretending to be all these things. There is seriously something wrong that you think that you already know what SVB is, when, in reality, you have no clue what it is.
If you really knew what SVB and NVB is, you would be writing and talking about it, but you are not doing that. The only way in which you can get serious about SVB and NVB is by talking and by writing about it. When are you going to do that? It also doesn’t make any difference if you repost what others have written. When are you going to take note of the undeniable fact that in NVB, you don’t care as a speaker how the listener is experiencing you? Once you as the speaker, begin to care about how the listener is experiencing you, you will speak very differently, you will sound very differently, you will write very differently as you will be thinking and feeling very differently. These words will be taken seriously by you only if they are spoken with your sound, which you are listening to, which makes you conscious, which makes you realize that being serious about how you sound is delightful.
This writing is about being serious and about being taken serious. Most people are completely incapable of taking me serious as they don’t know how to be serious. Even if they try to be serious, they can never be serious enough. The person who takes me serious must be very serious. To take me serious, you must be as serious as I am and I tell you, I am very serious.
All the nonsense people post on their face book are failed attempts at being taken serious. People would like to be taken serious, but they aren’t as they don’t take themselves serious. Although they would rather be taken serious, people who take themselves serious really don’t care at all if other people don’t take them serious. They will not stop being serious when other people don’t take them serious. To the contrary, they will take themselves even more serious when others don’t take them serious. Since they know what it is like to be serious, they enjoy being serious. People don’t like being serious as they don’t know how to be serious. They make it seem as if there is something wrong with being serious, but since they can’t be serious, there is actually something wrong with them.
There is seriously something wrong with you when you can’t be serious about the way in which you talk. If you keep having Noxious Verbal Behavior (NVB), your life will be full of problems. To acknowledge that you are again and again engaging in NVB is a serious matter. You can blame me for being too serious, but your rejecting me is not changing the fact that what I say is true. You are constantly involved in NVB and this makes your life into a stressful, unhappy mess.
Being serious requires that you acknowledge your interactions aren’t working. You aren’t interacting. How can you call it interacting, if you are always right, if you always know it better, if you keep feeling upset, worried, stressed, fearful, angry and resentful? How can you call it interacting, if you force others? How can you call it interacting, if you keep separating from others instead of connecting with them? What kind of interaction is that? Seriously, when are you ever going to get serious about your superficial, insensitive, boring and unintelligent way of life in which you keep pretending to be better than others?
Unless you get serious about your involvement in NVB, you will never have any ongoing Sound Verbal Behavior (SVB). You keep pretending to have SVB, but you are not having it. You keep pretending to be calm, friendly, positive, patient, open, understanding, empathic, accepting, in control, flexible, easy-going, loving, caring, smart, insightful, humble, spiritual, practical, capable, trustworthy, approachable, alert, truthful, hopeful, motivated, focused and reliable, but you are not. And, it is really bad you keep pretending to be all these things. There is seriously something wrong that you think that you already know what SVB is, when, in reality, you have no clue what it is.
If you really knew what SVB and NVB is, you would be writing and talking about it, but you are not doing that. The only way in which you can get serious about SVB and NVB is by talking and by writing about it. When are you going to do that? It also doesn’t make any difference if you repost what others have written. When are you going to take note of the undeniable fact that in NVB, you don’t care as a speaker how the listener is experiencing you? Once you as the speaker, begin to care about how the listener is experiencing you, you will speak very differently, you will sound very differently, you will write very differently as you will be thinking and feeling very differently. These words will be taken seriously by you only if they are spoken with your sound, which you are listening to, which makes you conscious, which makes you realize that being serious about how you sound is delightful.
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