February 1, 2016
Written by Maximus Peperkamp, M.S. Verbal Engineer
Dear Reader,
In Freedom and
Dignity (1971, p. 108), in Chapter 6 about Values, Skinner writes “A fact is no
doubt different from what a person feels about it, but the latter is a fact
also.” However, acknowledgment of the latter is more difficult as it deals with
how we talk about our feelings. Although Skinner states “What causes trouble
here as elsewhere, is the appeal to what people feel,” he doesn’t explain that verbal
behavior regarding our feelings is often inaccurate due to Noxious Verbal
Behavior (NVB), which occurs due to the presence of aversive stimuli.
Only
during Sound Verbal Behavior (SVB), in which we feel safe and supported, can we
become accurate in our verbal descriptions about what we feel. Indeed, “conditions
of the body are much more important.” And, “to make a value judgement by
calling something good or bad is to classify it in terms of its reinforcing
effects.” Thus, to make a value statement is really to describe the condition
of our body.
Skinner states that the
“person who is teaching a child to distinguish among his feelings is like a
color-blind person teaching a child to name colors. The teacher cannot be sure
about the presence or absence of the condition which determines whether a
response is to be reinforced or not.” It would be more accurate to say that
such a teacher is more or less tone-deaf;
unless he listens to himself while he speaks, he cannot hear what the
speaker-as-own-listener is hearing. The color-blind metaphor is not working.
“The language of emotion is not precise” as long as we don’t listen to
ourselves while we speak and inadvertently engage in NVB. Surely, “We describe our emotions with terms
which have been learned in connection with other kinds of things, almost all
the words we use were originally metaphors.” However, we need to discriminate the
two universal response classes: SVB and NVB.