December 11, 2014
Written by Maximus Peperkamp, M.S. Verbal Engineer
Dear Reader,
This author is overjoyed with the results he is having with
the students in the psychology class that he is teaching. Yesterday night it was
such a fun class. There was a wonderful energy in the room. One student, who
had been to this author’s seminar, suggested we do an experiment. It went
very well. Students had to get on their feet and meet with at least 7 people.
They wrote on a piece of paper a plus if they were experiencing Sound Verbal
Behavior (SVB) and a minus if they were having Noxious Verbal Behavior (NVB).
Everybody was talking and laughing. Most of them had 6xSVB and 1xNVB or 5xSVB
and 2xNVB. The experiment was an incredible success. Everyone was buzzing with
excitement.
The accumulative effects of a semester of teaching SVB were unleashed.
One of the students had even brought a friend to class, because she wanted her
to get an experience of how wonderful this class is. Also, this author returned
all the papers to his students and gave them lots of feedback and compliments.
During Thanks Giving, while he had been with his Chinese family, he had been
reading papers. He had felt so connected with his students through their
writings. It had seemed as if they were talking with him. This writer had never
before experienced this powerful written feedback. Many
were writing about things that were said during class and that were important to their lives outside the class. Particularly the SVB/NVB distinction is very relevant to his students.
SVB can be classified as “a communication-based
intervention”, since it eliminates “problem behavior” (NVB) by “teaching
individuals a specific form of communication” (SVB) (Carr et al, 1997). Because
SVB is more effective, more energizing and more fun in influencing others than
NVB, it may eventually replace it. The student who had been to this author’s
seminar, commented that although outside of class most people may not be
inclined to have SVB, he felt that the higher number of times he had NVB made
the few times he was able to have SVB more valuable. He was referring to the
stimulation and maintenance of SVB by what is known in behaviorism as a variable ratio
reinforcement schedule, because he knew that continuous reinforcement was not
likely to happen. People don’t need to feel rejected if they can’t have SVB.
When they understand how it works, they know and trust it will happen if it can
happen and not make a big deal when it doesn’t happen, because when it doesn’t
happen, this simply means that it can’t happen. All sorts of emotional problems
can now be avoided in this way.
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