April
14, 2016
Written
by Maximus Peperkamp, M.S. Verbal Engineer
Dear Reader,
In “Religion as
Schedule-Induced Behavior” (2009) Strand describes what has been described as
‘a seeker’s dark night of the soul’, “religious dark periods” which involve
“continued effortful behavior without the foundational, induced behavior.” It is,
of course, a religious person’s negative private speech, which we refer to when
we speak of perseverance “with a calling
in the absence of the felt grace of God” (italics by me). Rather than the
absence of a non-existing God, it is the absence of Sound Verbal Behavior
(SVB), the spoken communication in which the speaker can become bonded with the
listener and the listener can become at any time the speaker, which brings
isolation, loneliness, depression and despair. Moreover, negative private
speech didn’t arise on its own as it was always preceded by Noxious Verbal
Behavior (NVB) public speech. The person, who experiences SVB on a continuous
basis, has no negative self-talk to get rid of and is therefore not prone to any
superstition, which is what effortful religious behavior is.
“Induced religious behavior is
apparently more rewarding than acquired religious behavior.” The person who
experiences a lot of SVB will realize that genuine religious behavior is in
fact based on communion, on the joining of speaking and listening behavior. For
the person who knows the distinction between SVB and NVB, each period in which
we have NVB is a dark period, regardless of whether we experience this alone as
our negative private speech or together as negative public speech. It is not
the absence of God, which causes the speaker’s dark period, but the absence of
the listener.
Actually, the grandiose speaker,
who speaks AT the listener, may think that he or she is like God,
but he or she is not really present either, for he or she acts like an
unconscious, mechanical communicator. The tenacious belief that we cause our
own behavior sets the stage for NVB. In NVB, the speaker is not really speaking
and the listener is not really listening. In NVB we are disconnected from each
other and from ourselves and we are not real. Our conversation with an
imaginary God is just as unreal as our conversation based on an imaginary behavior-causing
self; both are always NVB. It is not the grace of God, which cannot be
grasped, but the listener, who cannot be forced. Forced listening will always
elicit a non-religious pattern of behavior.