October 17, 2016
Written by Maximus Peperkamp, M.S. Verbal Engineer
Dear Reader,
Only someone who knows about the difference between Sound
Verbal Behavior (SVB) and Noxious Verbal Behavior (NVB) can be an effective
verbal engineer. Those who don’t know about this distinction miss out on
opportunities which are only available to those who do know.
The fact that people don’t know about the SVB/NVB distinction
doesn’t mean SVB and NVB don’t exist. These response classes do exist, but those who don’t know about
them unintentionally elicit NVB. Elicitation of NVB prevents evocation of SVB.
To evoke SVB requires refinement.
Refinement of human interaction is only possible after NVB has
been discriminated and put on an extinction schedule. Fighting must stop before
we can have peace. Why haven’t we stopped our fighting? We have continued to
fight as we didn’t realize that our NVB continued it.
Our talking creates and maintains our fighting. It could also
create and maintain our peace, but for that to happen our way of talking needs
to change. Why were we able to change other behaviors but not our way of
talking? We keep thinking other behaviors are more important.
We get upset when someone points out how we talk. Other behaviors
get all of our attention, but not our talking. As long as talking doesn’t get our
attention we can’t distinguish between SVB and NVB. I know I am the only verbal
engineer who focuses our attention on how we talk.
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