Inaudible,

 

Although everyone is already enlightened, due to our Disembodied Language (DL), it is inaudible. We can’t hear our Language Enlightenment (LE), as we don’t produce the right sound. This is not about an organic hearing defect, but a psychological defense mechanism, which prevents us from producing our natural voice. It sounds as bizarre as it is, but we can’t hear, we are enlightened with DL, our usual way of talking, in which we don’t want to listen to the fake-tone of our own voice, while we speak. We need to have Embodied Language (EL), a new way of talking, to hear, who we are and have always been.  

 

Make no mistake, you always pretend to sound like this or like that and you are so good at sounding casual, interested, happy, in control, at ease, cooperative and certain – and everyone else is also so used to it – that this is accepted as normal. It is not the same, to be truly friendly, genuine, relaxed, confident, interested, intelligent or to merely sound like it. The former sounds great and the latter sounds terrible, but we don’t hear it, because we are used to it. The problem of listening, is not about listening to others, but about listening to ourselves.

 

When you speak, you are simultaneously a speaker as well as a listener. Of course, there is no an inner entity, a speaker, who regulates how or when you speak or someone, supposedly, deep inside of you, who, presumably, is listening, to hear the so-called truth of the matter. In DL, you, unconsciously, and, therefore, carelessly, speak about the speaker or the listener, as you turn a verb or a process (speaking or listening) into a thing (the speaker or the listener).

 

In DL, we believe, pretend or try, in vain, to agree, someone is always more important than the other. Consequently, the vast majority of people would interpret the word listening, as listening to the someone else, that is, listening means paying attention to the speaker, who is not the listener. Listening is almost never understood or seldom referred to as listening to ourselves. As stated, there is no speaker, inside anyone, who does the speaking and there is no listener, inside anyone, who does the listening. We all, unknowingly, and, constantly, refer to these imaginary entities, because we have been conditioned to accept hierarchical speech, DL.

 

Not surprisingly, in DL, which is our usual way of talking, only a few people do all the speaking, of course, by pretending to represent others. However, the fact is, the admired, extra-ordinary, famous, powerful, superior, educated speakers, always dominate, manipulate, exploit and coerce, the subservient, masochistic, inferior, humble listeners. Regardless of all the bla-bla about equity, diversity, democracy and freedom, millions of people live in the illusion of DL and seem to have no other choice than to either oppress others or to be oppressed.

 

In DL, speakers compete with each other, to get the audience’s attention. Only those, who are the most vicious and conniving come out on top. Since I know the difference between DL and EL, I know that the attention which is received in DL is not the attention I want. It is harmful to me, as it distracts me from myself. Only in EL can I be myself and remain myself.  I listen to myself, while I speak and I have no doubt about it, that the so-called speaker and so-called listener are one. Thus, when I speak out loud, alone with myself, it is not my speaking, but my listening to myself, which is the most important and because I listen, I can understand and act on everything I say.

 

Another way of describing the aforementioned, is that in EL, the so-called listener gets the attention from the audience, who is the so-called speaker. If you talk with yourself about listening to yourself, you will find, your tone of voice changes, because you weren’t listening to yourself, as you have never deliberately talked with yourself, about listening to yourself. Also famous method-actors, politicians, scientists, psychologists, therapists or our so-called spiritual leaders engage only in DL, as they don’t listen to themselves. It is not the blind leading the blind, but the psychologically-deaf-to-themselves, who lead the psychologically-deaf-to-themselves.

 

After you have stopped your DL, you will hear your LE with your EL. Like me, you will act on what you say to yourself and achieve continuously positive results. These results, however, are not what you had in mind, as there is no mind. By listening to yourself while you speak, the notion of being a speaker or a listener dissolves. Likewise, the notion of having a mind and thoughts becomes irrelevant to you, as you master your own language. Your LE is something so simple and beautiful, but easy to miss. You don’t hear it, you can’t hear it, as long as your speaking-sound isn’t adjusted to who you are, when you are totally at ease. Take some time, to speak with yourself, to calm yourself down, so that you can hear and understand your LE, with your EL.

 

Entirely,

 

Taking charge of your language is something entirely different from determining the so-called narrative. The latter is what we say about each other, but the former is about what we say to ourselves. What we say to ourselves, is completely opposed to what we say to each other, because we keep engaging in DL. In EL, this wouldn’t be the case, but to have EL, we must first know what DL is, so that we can stop it.

 

In DL, we aren’t in touch with ourselves, as we don’t  realize, our language is negative. We worry, stress, fight, distract, frustrate and disappoint each other as well as ourselves. In EL, by contrast, we know what DL is, that is why we aren’t getting involved in it. If we get sucked into DL, it is always involuntary, never voluntary. Although we believe, we can chose to have DL or EL, this isn’t true. We engage in DL by default, as we don’t know any better and when we have EL, our circumstances are such, we can have it.

 

Nobody is above the law of human behavior, which dictates, that when we perceive something to be a threat, our involuntary autonomic nervous system or the so-called fight/flight/freeze response kicks in. In neurobiology this is known as the mobilization response, which is down-regulated if we no longer perceive the threat to exist. However, as long as we still experience this alarm phase, neurotransmitters will course through our veins, which, aid this whole body-response, since this is a matter of our survival.

 

We are – whether we know it or willing to find out about it or not, whether we aware of it or willing or capable to admit it and talk about it or not – always in the grip of our own physiological stress-response, which is only as good as our previous ability to move away or neutralize the perceived threat. Given the undeniable fact that we engage in DL, in every society, it is quite apparent, we aren’t very good in dealing – verbally – with the threat we experience.

 

Our inability and unwillingness to talk about what makes us feel threatened causes negative emotions, that is, we become fearful, stressed, angry, chaotic, intimidated, hopeless, distrustful and pretentious in our language. This is why DL is audible everywhere. Unconsciously, we don’t want to listen to each other and we also don’t want to listen to ourselves, as we  don’t like to hear the horrible upsetting sound of DL.

 

When we notice the important difference between DL and EL, it is crystal clear to us, we want EL, not DL. However, this is not how we were conditioned. Although we can’t help, that we, again and again,  against our better judgment, engage in DL, we are not what we were conditioned to be and that is why, once we have experienced the great difference between DL and EL, our EL beckons us to go against our conditioning history, no matter how impossible this may seem. Another way of saying this is, that our EL increases our self-worth to such a point, we realize, our involvement in DL isn’t worth the hassle. While going against our conditioning isn’t easy, it is absolutely worth it, as all results of EL are beneficial.

 

We have many negative behaviors, as long as our DL continues and our lives are filled with contradictions and conflicts. Although you are reading this and you may even agree with it, without talking with me or  my dear Dutch friend AnnaMieke – who also knows about it – it is impossible to know about DL and EL, as you have no solid reason, for why you should go against your own conditioning. We keep having DL, because, except ourselves, nothing can stop us. In  the conversation with me or AnnaMieke, you will be cured from expecting someone else to do it for you.

 

When you get into your own EL, you are catching up with yourself, as your entire history of conditioning, that is, your identity, is on the table. This is one of the most peculiar aspects about EL: you become aware of your DL. The bottom has fallen out of your DL. Once you have had some EL, DL doesn’t have its usual grip on you anymore. Although you still have the inclination to have more DL, it doesn’t harm you as much anymore and it no longer causes as many struggles and problems, because something – about your way of dealing with language – has changed.

 

Everything which has ever bothered you goes back to your mechanical involvement in DL. You don’t do anything to change it, but you know, more and more certain, each time you return to it, EL is your path and DL always distracted and dissuaded you from going your way. The grateful feeling of having found your own way is so beautiful. Your struggle is over, even though you know, in certain ways, your history of conditioning is still pulling on you. Everything is accepted, you are okay, yes, you are saved from the jaws of DL, which devour everyone, as your EL assures you, you are safe and what you have gone through, has brought you where you are today.

 

Your coming of age, dear reader, includes you read and understand this. You recognize, I have written this for you. Of course, I wrote it for myself first and that is why this text affects you. You are not your conditioning history, but you are who you can and will be with EL. Yes, you are capable of EL, in spite of your trouble-some history with DL. Your knowledge of the difference between DL and EL, takes the place of what you have called faith or spirituality. Instead of believing or trying to hang onto self-imposed, superstitious nonsense, you have the opportunity to reason and to use your own intelligence. Moreover, everything you have been able to put into words, with your EL, proves to be true. EL is not some stupid belief, but an entirely different and correct perspective about language, which, consequently, has very different results. Since you are always in charge of your own EL, you can’t miss, EL is the expression of your Language Enlightenment (EL).      

 

Possibility,

 

I know about the possibility of how to be at peace with myself. My Embodied Language (EL) gives me rest and relaxation, very much needed, as everyone engages in stressful Disembodied Language (DL). I don’t want DL, but I can’t help being affected by it. I feel fortunate, I have the possibility to return to EL, because most people don’t have that opportunity.

 

There is no other possibility to enjoy happiness and wellbeing, than with one’s own language. People have in vain attempted to achieve their comfort and health through prayer, meditation, exercise, study, knowledge, travel, sport, music or being in nature, but none of these activities could produce what only their language could produce. However, our DL prevents us from realizing this and only our EL can make us aware of the possibility of total freedom.

 

It is astonishing, but due to our usual way of dealing with language, which is DL, we speak every day with a voice, which – if we would listen to it – we don’t even like or want to have. As long as this continues to be the case, something is fundamentally wrong with our energy. Our relationship with our language is based on negative experiences, because we don’t know how to speak with the sound of our positivity.

 

The possibility of EL depends on whether we listen to what kind of voice we produce, while we speak. It may sound unbelievable –  I’m not asking anyone to believe in me – but in our common way of speaking, which is DL, speakers don’t listen to themselves, as they expect other listeners to listen to them. The word listening is treated, as if it only means listening to someone else, it is never interpreted as listening to ourselves, as that would change everything.  

 

Listening to ourselves, implies our freedom, as we are our own authority. Therefore, in EL, listening to others, doesn’t exclude listening to ourselves, as it does in DL. Thus, in EL, there is an entirely different way of listening, as listening to others, is the same as listening to ourselves. In DL, by contrast, listening to ourselves, means something completely different from listening to others. Moreover, in EL, listening to others, is the same as listening to ourselves, since it also means, that talking with others, is the same as talking with ourselves. In other words, during EL, all the speakers are supported by the great possibility, that our other-listening enhances our self-listening.

 

The possibility of our Language Enlightenment (LE)  depends on our ability, to differentiate between our own as well as each other’s DL and EL. However, this skill can only be acquired, if we spend time alone, talking out loud and listening to ourselves. It is only then, that we can recognize our own conditioning:  our tendency, to change the sound of our natural effortless voice, to an unnatural, effortful voice,  while we speak. Each time we do that, we switch from DL to EL and, suddenly, we feel full of bliss. As soon as we engage in EL, we will experience our LE.

 

Another way of describing the possibility of our EL, is that our self-regulation and self-instruction – that is, our ability to comport ourselves – is, of course,  dependent on the regulation and the instruction we have received and continue to receive from others.  In DL, the issue having to take responsibility, has an inherently negative meaning, since the coercive and stern instructions, we receive from others actually disturbs rather than supports our self-regulation. EL makes us confident and capable, while DL gas-lights us. If we look at the problems in society, it is clear, our way of dealing with our language isn’t working.

 

We all have the possibility, to engage in EL instead of DL, but this revolutionary potential is only going to manifest itself, if we fully accept, that listening to and talking with ourselves, is more important than being talked at by others and, consequently, always listening to the authority, which isn’t us. In EL, we are our own authority, as we listen to ourselves while we speak. Furthermore, since we are verbally the master over our own EL, we are experiencing our LE and have no urge whatsoever to pretend to be the authority for someone else. Therefore, with the attainment of the possibility of ongoing EL, all our struggle with or for authority comes to an end.             

 

Clear,

 

Let me be very clear: my Embodied Language (EL) and my Language Enlightenment (LE) is much more important than Joe Biden, Donald Trump, national security or the LGBTQ community. I would love to speak with you about your EL and your LE, but you are more interested in other things. Everything you do or don’t do, is determined by your Disembodied Language (DL). This means: you are not really alive, because your language makes you repeat the same nonsense, over and over again. Of course, things are getting worse, as your DL is against anything new.

 

I know you don’t believe me, but for me every day is new, every moment is new. My LE wants me to use my language carefully. I don’t participate in your DL and can continue with my EL, which reveals what is important to me. The newness of my EL, is because I am alive, aware and in touch with my intelligence. I always have something new to say or to write, since my language is about me. I talk out loud with myself and listen to the sound of my voice, because that is more enjoyable to me, than talking with you.

 

I am not confused about what is going on in my life, as I stay clear from the trouble, which, inevitably, is created by your automatic, unconscious, dumb way of using language. I don’t accuse anyone, but I dare to speak my truth, nobody wants to hear. To hear my truth, you would have to speak with and listen to yourself. You too are able to say something new, but you don’t say it and that is why you can’t hear it. Whatever you say, you have already said and to say something new requires you to stop repeating yourself. If you don’t stop your DL, EL is impossible.  

 

Historically, people, everywhere, have made a big deal about saying the truth, but hearing the truth was never anyone’s concern. When anyone speaks,  as they say – truth to power – they don’t listen to themselves. All they care about is that others listen to them. However, when we speak our own truth, we are clear, because we can hear what we say, as we listen to ourselves, but when we don’t do that, we merely express our usual, reactive, demanding, coercive, insensitive words, which hide who we are.

 

DL hides the truth from you, while you don’t even know, you engage in it every day. What you consider to be your truth or the truth, is the product of your history of conditioning with DL, but the truth, which sets you free, your new truth, can only be expressed with the sound of your wellbeing. Your language is riddled with conflict, despair, struggle, fear, distrust, frustration and chaos. Moreover, you accept this as your reality. You don’t create, with your language, a different reality. Only when you stop your DL, so you can engage in EL, you create a new reality, but this is not some philosophy, either you do it or you don’t.   

 

After you have stopped your own DL – because you have repeatedly, patiently and faithfully listened to and given your total attention to, all the negativity, which was asking your attention – you will have EL and you can’t miss, that your reality is transformed. By changing from DL to EL, it is clear, you have taken the necessary steps to do something about your life, you had never done before. As you, initially, go back and forth between DL and EL, you realize, again and again, that you get, unconsciously, pulled back into DL, but now you catch yourself and keep taking the steps, to get back on track with your EL. It is clear to you, that your EL only continues, if say it and hear it. 

 

When you talk out loud, alone, with yourself, it is so easy to have EL, but when you are with others, who don’t know anything about EL, it is easy to engage in DL again. You would like others to have EL with you, but if you try to explain it to them, you will find, that you lose it and engage in DL again. It becomes very clear, that unless all your attention goes to your own behavior – instead of the behavior of others – your EL doesn’t and can’t continue. If you don’t devote your whole life to having EL, it is not going happen. It is clear, that all your energy is needed, to be able to continue with EL. Your EL collects all your energy. As you manage to stop your DL, your energy will accumulate. This is not some spiritual matter, but a matter of really verbally expressing your LE, your natural state of being free, clear and conscious.

 

Interestingly, your ongoing EL – which you can only share with those, who also explored and stopped their DL, so they could have ongoing EL – makes clear to you, you always, unknowingly, wanted to express your LE, but your DL, simply wouldn’t let you. Stated differently, your usual way of dealing with language, has prevented you from expressing your natural state of wellbeing and this has created nothing but problems. It is clear, these problems are left behind, if you keep engaging in EL. Psychology hasn’t taught us anything about EL and LE, neither has linguistics, behaviorism, science or literature.               

 

Millions,

 

There couldn’t be Embodied Language (EL) without humor. Expression of our Language Enlightenment (LE) isn’t some serious, boring, effortful matter, but  something natural, delightful and funny. Those who don’t believe this, are upset about this and it is best for them to stop reading. If you continue to read, you must be different from the millions of people, who, unknowingly, turned their back on themselves.

 

If you really want to know more about your EL and LE, you might as well start reading this text out loud, as that gives you the opportunity, to hear your own voice and realize the spaciousness of your EL, which expresses your LE. It isn’t complicated. Everything seems confusing due to Disembodied Language (DL), which has never been properly addressed and therefore, stopped. It’s funny, regardless of all wars, conflicts and arguments, we’ve never spoken clearly about our usual way of dealing with our language.

 

Basically, all we have done, to dominate, exploit, manipulate or out-compete each other, hasn’t made us happy, as it prevented us from being ourselves. Surely, there are people, who, presumably, have the moral high ground, but, like everyone else, they are out of touch with themselves and can’t laugh about their hypocrisy. Their DL keeps this charade going.

 

People believe our so-called salvation or betterment has to do with our religion, politics or education, but no one gets to the fact, that we don’t hear ourselves while we speak. There is a reason, why we hate to be confronted with the consequences of our own actions. Obviously, when the results of our behavior are bad, we don’t want to know about it and wish to blame others. And, yes, no matter how, presumably, powerful we may be, we still play the victim-card.

 

Are you one of those pathetic people, who wants to blame me or someone else for what you don’t do or are you one in – probably – a couple of million, who listens to him or herself, while he or she speaks? I laugh at this blame-game, which is always the same, as I am not part of it. You should laugh about it as well, but you fear to hurt other’s feelings and so, you don’t. This is why you experience no laughter in your life. You are always afraid that your fun upsets others. Only if you care more about yourself, than others – as a so-called egoist – will you laugh more.

 

You are participating in and cooperating with DL and this means, that you are used to lying and being lied to. However, these words are the truth and they are laughable, but that is a good, not a bad thing. When did it ever happen, that we had to feel ashamed of our laughter, as it became equivalent to disapproval and humiliation? Such sick pleasure, at the defeat of others, has nothing to do with humor. Quite to the contrary, your fake laughter, which goes along with superficial conversation, proves you misunderstand  laughter as a form of stabbing someone in the back.

 

We laugh, when there is, in reality nothing to laugh about. Don’t blame me for not providing you with your usual security-blanket of false humor. Besides, I laugh about your deceptive, insincere confidence. I don’t do this to shame you, but to lift your spirits. It would be disrespectful, if I would accept you, in the way, you, supposedly, accept yourself, as you don’t accept yourself, since you don’t have the language to do that. You only know humorless DL, but I have EL, which contains humor, to dispel your disbelief.

 

There is a difference between shaming someone or  verbally obliterating their superstitious concepts of themselves and others. In the former – that is, in our usual way of dealing with our language and our humor – we keep imprisoning each other as well as ourselves, but in the latter, we liberate ourselves and each other with our language and our humor.

 

While you talk, your laughter will take you to places, where you could never go without laughter. Without laughter, you are heavy, immobile and totally stuck, but with laughter, you are flexible, light and fluid. Most importantly, with laughter, you are really here, because you disappear. These are not statements to impress you, these are the facts about real laughter. Your old self has to go and only then will you know, that laughter wasn’t just some stupid show. Yes, you are only believable, credible and reliable, when you are laughable and what you believed about laughter was absolutely wrong and that is why you laughed so little. Only when you talk and laugh to your heart’s content, will you be truly yourself, a different person, not anything like how you were before.   

 

Real,

 

My humor is so funny, because it isn’t, like most other so-called humor, made up. It is real and you can tell, because you either absolutely love it or you vehemently hate it. If you love it, you allow it, but if you hate it, you resist it. Resisting humor is a funny thing: it is still funny, but you don’t laugh, you can’t. Those who talk with me, always laugh with me, but you only read what I write and, therefore, you must admit it, you can feel it, you resist it, because you know very well, you are full of shit. Moreover, you are upset, I don’t care about you. I don’t care about anyone, who refuses to laugh and talk with me.

 

I didn’t write this for those, who can have Embodied Language (EL) with me, but for the millions of idiots, who keep having Disembodied Language (DL) and keep pretending, their way of talking is better than, more important than, more intelligent than, more needed than and more realistic than EL. Well, I’ve got news for you: it isn’t and your negative, nasty complaining and whining doesn’t change anything. Those who talk with me, laugh with me, even when they read my writing, but you, the miserable reader, who acts, as if I am not good enough for you to talk with, must feel really pissed, wasting your time reading this. You are frustrated with anything you do and reading this text is not going to change that.

 

Just, so you know – and you should know, by now, who I am talking about – although I have written this, although you may read this, I am not talking with you and you are not hearing me. Let me be very clear, the writer is not a speaker and neither is the reader a listener. If you hear anything, you hear yourself, because you are so baffled, that you read it out loud. It is about time, you hear yourself talk and notice, how your way of dealing with your language is determined by how you sound while you speak.

 

Get real, if you don’t laugh about what I write, you don’t give a fuck. Why should I care? Since we don’t talk, this is my way, to let you know, my humor is bigger than your coward rejection, to talk with me. My rub-it-in humor is more effective than anything anyone has ever written or said, as it derives from my Language Enlightenment (LE). For real, losers, like you, who don’t laugh, are made fun of by me.

 

This is how it should be. I’m not letting anyone off the hook. To the contrary, I hold people responsible for not laughing. It is a grave offense to our human intelligence. You should be made to feel ashamed of yourself. You have not destroyed my laughter, but you have extinguished your own and you pay the price. This isn’t the first time, you are fuming with contempt. This is the deal: your disapproval is funny to me and now you know for real, this is how I feel.

 

Real humor doesn’t need anyone’s approbation. For too long, bogus humorists have placated and kissed ass, but I, figuratively, verbally, kick your ass, as that is what is needed. Your DL is pathetic and my EL is funny. Having EL, while everyone is only having DL is funny, as those with EL are the only ones, who are happy. If you read this, but you still aren’t laughing by now, there is no hope for you. Your hopelessness should make you re-direct your attention, but if my words offend, know that your laughter is on its way.

 

Those who laugh know and have always known,  those who don’t laugh, should be held accountable.  Although I am just one person, who doesn’t even speak with you, I am in the majority. Normally, it is those who don’t laugh, who are in the majority, but in this writing, my laughter has an effect, no spoken words have ever had, as these words, so to speak,  get into and stay in the reader’s head. It is easy to forget what someone has said, but you can’t forget what you have read, as you can and should reread it again. When you study my writings, the power of my laughter is very apparent, but the miserliness, the awkwardness and the stupidity of your fake laughter, makes you want the laughter I have.

 

Real laughter always makes you jealous, because you know, you don’t possess it, as you can’t possess it. As long as you still believe yourself to be some  supposedly, superior, super-human being, you can’t laugh and feel infuriated by anyone who can. You have absolutely no say in whether it is funny or not. We, who have fun, out-perform you. Yes, your lack of laughter is because you are not functioning well, you are troubled. We’ve always known that and no longer worry about your problems, which you can have all to yourself. Go and take care of your own business. We laugh and have better things to do.

 

It's great to put those, who don’t laugh – those who always have a sour face – in their place, by letting them know, we don’t care and leave them behind. Your humorless ways of DL have always been the case and we, who have EL, aren’t waiting for you. This is such a great topic to laugh about, that we, basically, laugh you away. We know our laughter hurts and it should, because there is no other way to crack you up. We, who have EL, feel so good together, so supported, so united, so confident, as our laughter isn’t short-lived, but it keeps on going.  

 

We, who have the ability to laugh about ourselves, hate those who demand jokes, as their superficiality has always been the enemy of real humor. We don’t fear the confrontation with seriousness, as we win every time. We don’t suffer your depression, your  confusion, your fear, your distraction, your struggle  and your bad judgement, as our EL is the real deal, which keeps us focused on our own happiness. You are the one, who must deal with the consequences of your actions, but we have our own great results.

 

You wish, you could be like us, but you can’t, in your current state. You better get your act together, as there will not be anything for you to laugh about, as long as you keep declining to take responsibility for your own misery. We, on the other hand, have moved on from you, a long time ago. You are on your own, as we are no longer trying to make you laugh. Real laughter has always been a matter of us versus them. It is often stated, these days, that the multiple forms of so-called group-think are bad, as they stop us from acting like real individuals, but this doesn’t apply to real humor. When we have EL and enjoy laughter, we will experience real oneness.             

 

That,

 

Now that I have recognized that my Language Enlightenment (LE) could only be expressed by my ongoing Embodied Language (EL), my history with Disembodied Language (DL) recedes further and further into the background. Yesterday, I briefly spoke with someone, who noticed my accent and asked where I was from. I told him, I immigrated to the United States from the Netherlands in 1999. He  asked, if I still had family in Holland and if had been back and I said, I never felt the urge, as my life is happening here. He then spoke of his own family with whom he had disconnected, after his mother had died and he found out, he had two half-sisters from other men, than his long-ago deceased father. He had tried to stay in touch, but, apparently, there was no real contact. He let me know, it is okay to go our own way and not be worried about the family we grew up in. It was interesting, as he seemed to tell me this, to be able to say it to himself. I could hear, he was getting a little emotional, but he had said it correctly. We shared a genuine moment.

 

Whenever we disclose our authentic experience, we dissolve. The experience, whatever it may be, is what it is. There’s no one trying to be better than the other, trying to compete, by, presumably, being the owner or the cause of a more important, better experience. Thus, during EL, nobody is bragging, pretending, manipulating, hiding or rejecting. Of course, we have all experienced such instances of EL, but we never continued with it, as our ability to experience these precious moments, has always depended on the absence of the experiencer.

 

When we honestly communicate our experience, the experiencer dissolves in experiencing the expression of his or her experience. However, this is incorrect, as there really wasn’t any experiencer, in the first place. There never was an experiencer, as there was always only our experience, but our DL wouldn’t let us see it that way. Only with ongoing EL do we get clear on that. The continuation of our EL, which – when we begin to discover the difference between DL and EL – seems like an impossible task, is enhanced by our persistent attention for the fact, that there truly is no one inside of us, separate from our experience, who is having the experience. If one can stay with that, one experiences one’s LE, that is, one’s EL continues without any sense of identity.

 

Your EL happens by itself, as there is nobody, who is doing it. Whatever you do happens by itself, without someone, who does it. Thus, you speak, but there’s no speaker, you write, but there’s no writer, you walk, but there’s no walker or you sleep, but there’s no sleeper. This reality is only expressed by EL. You see, but there’s no seer, you understand, but there’s no one who understands, as there is no memory in the seeing or the understanding. Stated differently, you see everything afresh and this newness cannot be expressed by your DL, as in DL, you speak, see or understand from your history of conditioning. In EL, by contrast, you are free, you have temporarily stopped your history of conditioning, as you have stopped your DL. EL and DL are mutually exclusive, they never happen together. Initially, inevitably and annoyingly, you will still go back and forth between DL and EL, but eventually, your EL will continue.

 

After you have acknowledged, your conditioning history pulls you back into DL, you’ll notice, your increased awareness makes you want to stop your DL and engage in EL. Moreover, you realize, you are free from yourself in EL, for as long as you are able to stop your DL. And, as stated, you are, of course, not stopping your DL, nor were you having EL, as these fluctuations in your behavior happen because they could happen. With DL, there will always be a forceful, effortful unnaturalness in your behavior, which repeats and stays the same, as you don’t and can’t allow change to occur, but in EL, your behavior is fluid, as you know, there is no one, who behaves.

 

Only your EL can reveal the nature of your DL. There is, however, nobody to whom anything is revealed, as this is simply our common, incorrect, problematic way of talking about stuff. Although during EL, you will feel liberated from the experiencer, who falsely claimed your experience, this absence is continually overtaken by your DL, in which you imagine, you  return, as the experiencer of your experience and, therefore, you feel worried, stressed, agitated or confused again. Going back and forth, you’ll notice you are unconscious in DL, but conscious in EL.

 

The words you use are still the same, but you use your words differently in EL. In EL, you still say: I see, I taste or I remember, but there is no one who sees, there is no one who tastes, there is no entity, who remembers, as there is only seeing, tasting and remembering the truth, which was hidden in your language for so long. When we have EL together, we all agree, our profound understanding is possible, as  there is no you, who speaks, nor a me, who listens. As our experience is finally correctly expressed by our EL – even when it is occasionally still necessarily the experience of our history with DL – we feel that our body changes or, as we usually say, we let go of our identification with our experience, which is, of course, our identification with our body. We attain our LE, by verbally staying with the scientific fact that there is no behavior-controlling agent inside.