Million,

 

Of course, I would very much like to talk with you about Embodied Language (EL) and let you know, that you can have it too, but since you don’t give me any chance to do that, I rather write about it. In this way, EL stays and continues with me and you can read about it and still get an idea of what it is.

 

If you believe that what I have written makes any sense, you can’t help but imagine what it would be like to talk with me. Actually, if this writing doesn’t make you want to have EL, there is really no hope for you, as you are doomed to remain trapped in Disembodied Language (DL) for the rest of your life.  

 

Only you can safe yourself from your DL, I cannot do it. If you don’t see your DL as a problem, you are in denial, you want to argue about what you believe to be true, but, the reality is that you only know how to engage in DL. When you talk with me you find how wonderful it is to have EL. The strange thing is, however, you may want it, but, you can’t have it.

 

You may ask me a couple of questions about how it works. Although what I say about EL is always true, my answers never make anything more clear to you. I can answer all your questions about EL and DL, but you have to ask them to yourself and engage, out loud, alone, in a conversation with yourself, before you will be able to have ongoing EL in your life.

 

You still have to give your own answer to your own question. Most likely, you will ask a question, which is not even your own question and, therefore, you end up with an answer, which isn’t yours either. For instance, you may ask: how does EL work? It sounds like a legitimate question, yet it isn’t your question.

 

Everybody asks the same question about EL, before they ask this question to themselves. Usually, they never even get that far. However, the latter would only be your question, if you would talk out loud with yourself and listen to your own voice. Unless you can hear and fully acknowledge, while you ask that question, the attention-demanding sound in your own voice, your answer will be totally useless.

 

You have been quick, superficial, and superstitious, in giving answers to any of your own questions, that is why none of your so-called answers, your jumping to conclusions, has ever worked for you, since you have always, unknowingly, continued with your DL. You only know how to pretend to have EL, but you never admitted this and stopped your own DL.

 

To put it squarely, in DL your questions as well as your answers are bogus. Who you believe to be is more important to you, than who you really are, so you keep playing hide and seek with questions and answers, but you never get around to asking the real questions, your questions, let alone, to giving your own answers, based on your own intelligence.

 

Only once or twice, due to the never-ending tragedy of your chaotic, restless, meaningless life, did you succeed in really asking yourself what is going on with you. Why are you so stressed, fearful, bored, confused, fanatic, frustrated, fake and addicted to all kinds of stuff that you know isn’t good for you or your relationships? There is this immanent gloom, as you have asked yourself that question a million times and you just can’t stand hearing the same old, unresolved, inaccurately-described problems.

 

Even if you would dare to ask yourself the difficult questions, even if you had the ability to accept your ignorance, you would still not hear it, trust it or act on it, as you have a history of failing to answer your own questions and this history is covered up by your spirituality, education, politics, and economics.

 

In DL, you unconsciously require others to conform to your belief of what is true, so you never have to ask yourself, why you are doing that? Why are you so eager to have others tell you how wonderful and fantastic you are, when, in fact, you don’t feel that way about yourself at all? If you would be able to have EL, you would feel so good about yourself, not because of how others treat you, but because of how you treat yourself, with your own language.

 

If others are, so to speak, the answer to all your questions, you believe you feel good about yourself, but anyone with EL knows, you are engaging in DL and incapable of being yourself. It doesn’t matter how nice, comforting, and subservient everyone is, who you are able to dominate with your DL. It also doesn’t matter how much you admire and kiss ass to those you look up to as your role-model. You never have EL with anyone, you treat as inferior or superior. As long as you have DL, your language simply isn’t working for you, as you are always, in one way or another, struggling, busy with others, and anxiously hanging on to your so-called identity, which is your verbal description of what you believe and tell everyone and yourself to be your reality.