Absentminded,

 

I am absentminded, because I engage in Embodied Language (EL), which made it absolutely clear to me that I don’t have a mind. It is only those, who have  Disembodied Language (DL), who believe to have a mind, who can be, at times, inattentive, forgetful,  preoccupied, distracted, daydreaming or vague. To me, being fully attentive, clear, focused, present or conscious, is not some goal to be achieved, but it is how I live my life. Actually, I couldn’t be any better than I am today. I’m convinced, it will continue to get even better. My past is predictive of my future and everything got better and better. I don’t see any reason, why this wouldn’t be any longer the case.

 

Most people, who are considered absentminded with DL, are gloomy. In my EL-opinion, they are actually showing, how disinterested, aimless,  unmotivated, uncommitted and disconnected they really are. Supposedly, there is something wrong with them, but to me, it is a sign of intelligence that they don’t want pay attention, to what anyone with DL demands, they should be paying attention to.

 

You could say, that absentmindedness is a bad thing in DL, but it is a good thing in EL. In fact, unless you don’t give a shit about your own or anyone else’s DL anymore, you will not be able to have any ongoing EL. Since we don’t know about the great difference between DL and EL, we totally fail to acknowledge how often people are scatter-brained, due to mostly their own, but, of course, also due to DL of others.  

 

If someone is considered absentminded, he or she doesn’t pay attention, to what most people usually pay attention to. Anyone who can have ongoing EL, obviously, prefers EL over DL, as he or she knows, that people with DL, are obsessed with nothing but bullshit, superficiality and superstition. Whether we admit it or not, we mainly engage in DL, because we simply do not know how to have EL. It is always a DL speaker, who stresses the listener’s attention and admonishes him or her for being absentminded.

 

In DL, there always appears to be a problem with so-called listening. We are continuously told, that, supposedly, listening is really difficult, and we are made to believe, the world would be a better place, and everything would be so much easier, if only we would put more serious effort into becoming better listeners. Those who are good listeners, to speakers who engage in DL, are obedient slaves. As a former psychology instructor and tutor, I can tell you, with 100% certainty, anyone with attentional problems always hates DL and responds more genuinely to my EL, than anyone, who doesn’t have these problems.

 

Surprisingly, after we have experienced, recognized and spoken about the immense difference between our DL and our EL, it is very clear to us, we all agree about the fact, that nobody actually likes to listen to DL, yet we all love to hear someone’s EL. Therefore, the problem was never listening, but it was always the aversive sound of the DL speaker, who couldn’t elicit a listening-response in the listener. Hilariously, in EL, there is no problem with listening, because we are absentminded, as we are really sure, we don’t have a mind, thoughts or language inside of our heads. In EL, inner dialogue or private speech doesn’t exist.  

 

With DL, we talk about someone, who is considered to be absentminded, as someone who is abstracted. Abstractus is Latin and means drawn off or removed from something specific. However, mind or thought isn’t anything specific, as it is merely a non-existing concept, that was created by our DL. With our DL, we say, someone is abstracted, because he or she is absent in mind or distracted from present reality by intellectual actual activity. However, the reality isn’t some fantasy, which is created by our DL and our overrated intellectuality – which also stems from our DL – has always been against our feelings, that is, with DL, we are distracted from the reality of who we really are. With DL, we imagine to be rational, by pretending to have moved away from our feelings.

 

When we consider the devastating fact, that DL is accepted and adhered to by everyone, everywhere, as the rule, while our individual EL is, at best, only an occasional, short-lived, unfathomable exception, it is not surprising, that so many people go through their lives sleepwalking, unconscious, removed and dissociated from the presence of their own feelings, which, because they were not attended to, properly expressed, and, therefore, neglected, are negative.

 

Our common way of talking, DL, doesn’t and can’t address our feelings and we are therefore, generally absentminded. In the United States, where I live, we tolerate the piles of disgusting filth and garbage of the ever-growing, destitute, hopelessly addicted homeless population, because our DL is completely out of touch with reality. We can only begin to solve our problems, if we address them properly, which means we must stop our DL, then engage in EL, and then, acknowledge, that being absentminded is our reality. There is no mind or thought in EL, therefore, we can be fully present, we can talk without being removed from reality, by how we use our language.