Possibility,

 

I know about the possibility of how to be at peace with myself. My Embodied Language (EL) gives me rest and relaxation, very much needed, as everyone engages in stressful Disembodied Language (DL). I don’t want DL, but I can’t help being affected by it. I feel fortunate, I have the possibility to return to EL, because most people don’t have that opportunity.

 

There is no other possibility to enjoy happiness and wellbeing, than with one’s own language. People have in vain attempted to achieve their comfort and health through prayer, meditation, exercise, study, knowledge, travel, sport, music or being in nature, but none of these activities could produce what only their language could produce. However, our DL prevents us from realizing this and only our EL can make us aware of the possibility of total freedom.

 

It is astonishing, but due to our usual way of dealing with language, which is DL, we speak every day with a voice, which – if we would listen to it – we don’t even like or want to have. As long as this continues to be the case, something is fundamentally wrong with our energy. Our relationship with our language is based on negative experiences, because we don’t know how to speak with the sound of our positivity.

 

The possibility of EL depends on whether we listen to what kind of voice we produce, while we speak. It may sound unbelievable –  I’m not asking anyone to believe in me – but in our common way of speaking, which is DL, speakers don’t listen to themselves, as they expect other listeners to listen to them. The word listening is treated, as if it only means listening to someone else, it is never interpreted as listening to ourselves, as that would change everything.  

 

Listening to ourselves, implies our freedom, as we are our own authority. Therefore, in EL, listening to others, doesn’t exclude listening to ourselves, as it does in DL. Thus, in EL, there is an entirely different way of listening, as listening to others, is the same as listening to ourselves. In DL, by contrast, listening to ourselves, means something completely different from listening to others. Moreover, in EL, listening to others, is the same as listening to ourselves, since it also means, that talking with others, is the same as talking with ourselves. In other words, during EL, all the speakers are supported by the great possibility, that our other-listening enhances our self-listening.

 

The possibility of our Language Enlightenment (LE)  depends on our ability, to differentiate between our own as well as each other’s DL and EL. However, this skill can only be acquired, if we spend time alone, talking out loud and listening to ourselves. It is only then, that we can recognize our own conditioning:  our tendency, to change the sound of our natural effortless voice, to an unnatural, effortful voice,  while we speak. Each time we do that, we switch from DL to EL and, suddenly, we feel full of bliss. As soon as we engage in EL, we will experience our LE.

 

Another way of describing the possibility of our EL, is that our self-regulation and self-instruction – that is, our ability to comport ourselves – is, of course,  dependent on the regulation and the instruction we have received and continue to receive from others.  In DL, the issue having to take responsibility, has an inherently negative meaning, since the coercive and stern instructions, we receive from others actually disturbs rather than supports our self-regulation. EL makes us confident and capable, while DL gas-lights us. If we look at the problems in society, it is clear, our way of dealing with our language isn’t working.

 

We all have the possibility, to engage in EL instead of DL, but this revolutionary potential is only going to manifest itself, if we fully accept, that listening to and talking with ourselves, is more important than being talked at by others and, consequently, always listening to the authority, which isn’t us. In EL, we are our own authority, as we listen to ourselves while we speak. Furthermore, since we are verbally the master over our own EL, we are experiencing our LE and have no urge whatsoever to pretend to be the authority for someone else. Therefore, with the attainment of the possibility of ongoing EL, all our struggle with or for authority comes to an end.