No Way,

 

I am not sorry, there is no way I can help you! If you want to have Embodied Language (EL), you’ve got to stop your own Disembodied Language (DL). No way, I will ever deal with your nasty DL. No way, anyone is able to get done, what you have constantly refused to do for yourself.

 

There is no way, anyone with EL is ever going to be able to have any conversation with anyone who has DL. The two never meet. There is no way, to defend the stupidity, the superficiality, the ignorance, which goes on in the name of our common, usual, phony, unnatural, insensitive way of talking – DL – in which everyone keeps being upset, that nobody is listening to each other, but everyone is unconscious about the fact that nobody is listening to themselves.  

 

No way, means, under no circumstances. There is no way, in which EL can occur under the circumstances in which only DL can occur. If we talk about whether a speaker listens to him or herself, while he or she speaks or not, we are talking about two different circumstances. In other words, listening to ourselves while we speak, positively changes our individual situation, but in no way can it ever change someone else’s situation. There’s no way for anyone with DL, to understand EL, in the same way, that there is no way for anyone with Russian to understand Chinese.

 

Someone, who speaks Russian, knows he or she is speaking Russian. Someone who speaks Chinese, knows he or she speaks Chinese. The Russian speaker is used to hearing Russian and the Chinese speaker is used to hearing Chinese. Similarly, the DL speaker is used to hearing DL and the EL speaker – ideally speaking – is used to hearing EL. However, there’s no way, in which anyone can totally undo or extinguish the history of conditioning, we all have, with DL. The best we can do, is become aware of it and stop DL as much as possible. If we do that, there is no way, we favor – as we have done – our dreadful history with DL, because we want to have EL.

 

There is no way, in which a couple of brief moments of listening to ourselves while we speak, is going to counteract our long history of conditioning with DL. There will only be re-conditioning – in which we can identify and stop our DL – and counter-conditioning – in which we are able to have ongoing EL – if those, who can have EL, meet, talk and mutually reinforce each other’s EL. As with any other language, if there are no more speakers, who are speaking and sharing this language together, it will die. Likewise, if more and more people would engage in EL, instead of DL, DL would no longer occur. EL, the language of the individual, is mankind’s future, but DL, the language of the group, is outdated and is in a death-struggle. 

 

No way, EL is some ideal, to be strived for. Surely, EL and DL occur within every language, in each culture. Thus, DL and EL are cross-cultural or universal, they basically signify the verbal expression of negative or positive experiences. This is how language works. It is interesting to know, that lofty attempts at creating a universal language, Espiranto – which translates in English: one who hopes – have failed, since nobody was speaking it. However, every human being already knows DL and EL, even though, with our DL, there was no way, to have the conversation, in which we could – and would – become clear about this crucially important biological-psychological fact.

 

There is no way, any psychologist, actor, philosopher, religious leader, politician, journalist, monk, therapist, economist, follower, influencer, satanist, programmer, writer, drug addict, porn-star, bully, scientist, celebrity, professor, tyrant, teacher, holier-than-thou, liar, pervert, race-bater, lawyer, authority, stand-up comedian, mother-fucker, desperado, transgender, pro-Hamas protester, asshole, criminal, snake-oil-salesman, sooth-sayer, poet, musician or vagabond is going to be able to retain their identity, if they engage in EL. And, of course, there is also no way, we will ever be able to address, let alone, solve our problems with our DL. Our overrated, attention-demanding identity has always been our biggest communication problem.  

 

Although there is, as people used to say with DL, no way, in which East and West shall ever meet, there surely is a way, to become cognizant about these two ways of dealing with language. By simply speaking alone with our self and by listening to the sound of our voice, we start to admit and acknowledge the great difference between, when we don’t listen to ourselves while we speak and engage in DL and when we do listen to ourselves and engage in EL. When our DL stops, our EL begins and each time we forget to listen while we speak, we fall back in DL and our EL has stopped.

 

There is no way, in which it is possible for words or sentences, to occur inside of our body. Go and ask any neuroscientist, if he or she has ever found any language in the brain. No way, there can exist inner speech. Also, there is no way of knowing, what is on your so-called mind or what anyone else is thinking, unless we have said or written something about it. Moreover, unless we have said or written it, we cannot hear or read it. There is no way – just stop it! – we can hear our so-called inner voice or the imaginary voice of some higher power, deity or soul. All of this is nonsense, the result of DL, in which we don’t speak, to be able to listen to ourselves. Those, who have tasted the difference between EL and DL, but who have backed out on talking with me, want to hang on to their childish, fear-fantasies of DL. In that sense, what is called trauma, is mostly just ego.