Ridiculous,

 

You, with your Disembodied Language (DL), are totally ridiculous. It is so obvious, that you are suffering, yet, you make it seem, as if you are doing great. You cannot acknowledge – with your DL – you have problems, which don’t go away, but which will only get bigger and more complicated, as the years go by. Why can’t you admit, you feel hurt and everything you do, is a failed attempt, at trying to not feel aggrieved?

 

Ridiculous comes from Latin ridiculus, which means laughable, funny, absurd; ridere, to laugh. Related to the French word, risible, given to laughter, from Latin risus, past particle of ridere, to laugh. Once you know the difference between DL and Embodied Language (EL), it no longer makes any sense to consider DL as your choice, because you engage in it unconsciously and so, the whole idea of moving away from EL is quite ridiculous.

 

With automatic, unnatural, effortful, stupid DL, in which people are only able to pretend they have EL, nobody is having self-care, self-acceptance or self-understanding, to acknowledge – with language – what they are going through and they can only act tough, defensive or arrogant, to show, they are supposedly fine and in charge of their lives. Surely, they are reactive, instead of responsive. The difference between these two is enormous, because being responsive requires a different way of dealing with their language.

 

In EL, you listen to yourself while you speak, but in DL, you either want others to listen to you, or you are listening to others, but you never listen to yourself. It is absolutely ridiculous, after all these years of me speaking and writing about it, you still don’t have a clear sense about the importance of the difference between, when you listen to yourself, while you speak and when you don’t listen to yourself, while you speak. No matter how you much you want to avoid this, your way of dealing with language depends on your DL or your EL.

 

Don’t make it seem, as if I – or someone else – is responsible for addressing your ridiculous DL, because you need to stop it, before you are able to have EL with me or with anyone else. DL, in which you never speak out loud with yourself and, consequently, never have the chance to listen to yourself, is like a ridiculous concept to me. What you consider as listening to yourself, is your belief in the fantasy of inner language. I can speak about it, as I know the difference between DL and EL, so I can go on with my EL.

 

As long as you still go on with your draining DL, you still don’t know the difference between DL and EL. All you are really capable of is DL and more DL, which isn’t helping you. In fact, you are your own worst enemy. Your stubbornness, is actually your stupidity, because, how can you say that you are in charge of your life, when you don’t listen to yourself while speak? You refuse to admit that you are stuck with DL. Since I have EL, I can hear and see what is really going on. It doesn’t bother me – but it bothers you, that it doesn’t bother me – that you are stuck with DL.

 

What is so ridiculous about the aging process, is that it is more and more difficult, to keep up our tendency, to have DL. Go ahead, have some more DL, I’m not part of your sour way of getting old. Your way of life – to have DL – happens to be everyone’s way of life, because when it comes to language, we are all equally conditioned and gaslighted by our culture. It may sound exaggerated, that everyone, like you, engages in DL. That is the reality. I didn’t make it that way. Stop blaming me for pointing this out. I am about EL, which can only happen, if you recognize how hopeless your DL really is.

 

We have all endlessly gone through a ridiculous length, to presumably have some EL, but we are still having DL. It isn’t bad because I say so, but because you say so. Yes, you don’t even realize, you have already said – a million times – that your DL is bad, that your DL should stop, that you don’t like your DL and that your DL is the cause of all your problems. So, why haven’t you stopped it? I know why. You haven’t talked with me. You haven’t seriously read and understood what I’ve been saying and writing: you need to stop your own ugly DL. You need to tell yourself that you can’t go on with that shit. Unless you do that, you can’t talk with me. You have been lazy, irresponsible, cheap and superficial. You have always said, you, supposedly, wanted to have EL, but you always went back to your dumb DL.

 

It may seem ridiculous to you, but all your effort to have EL has been in vain and a waste of your time. Everyone in DL, is constantly pretending to have the moral high ground, but someone like me, who has ongoing EL, laughs about this. I know, you don’t like to hear that, but you can’t un-hear or un-read, what I’ve just made you understand. The buck stops with you. Basically, all the people with DL, have always been saying, all along, oh no, we don’t have DL, we have EL, and since nobody knows what – the hell – EL is, they get away with DL, but I know what EL is.

 

I don’t refer to EL as some ridiculous, idealistic, spiritual hypothetical. This is what everyone in DL is always doing, even when they claim not to have any religion. My ongoing EL signifies my Language Enlightenment (LE). Even if my history with DL rears its end again, I will stop it, as this it the only way to continue my EL. This writing is the result of my joy, intelligence and ability, to express my LE with my EL. Many people have come and gone, who said, they wanted to have EL, but they only went on with it for a while and then, they gave up. The undeniable reality of our EL is, that we have never created – together – the safe circumstances often enough, in which it could continue. Due to our conditioning with DL, we have always, at some point, distrusted each other and backed out. In other words, there never really was any faith in love. Instead, we have continued to believe in our fantasies, which always distracted us from the real deal. I am not distracted from my LE, as I have EL.

 

In closing, here are seven ridiculous jokes. 1) How do your build suspense?.......(?) I was at a funeral of a friend of mine. His wife asked me if I could say a quick word. I stood at the front, cleared my throat, chocked back the tears and said “Plethoria”. “Thank you” his wife said, as I sat down. “That means a lot.” 3) I had a dream last night I was a muffler…I woke up exhausted. 4) What do you call a fake-noodle? An impasta! 5) Did you hear about the guy who stole the cheese? He was up to no Gouda. 6) Two fish are in a tank. One turns to the other and says “How do you drive this thing?” 7) I used to be afraid of hurdles, but then I got over it.