Situation,

 

Regardless of what your situation you are in, how did you get into this situation, in the first place? It is because of your Disembodied Language (DL), that everything is the way it is. Everything would be very different, if you knew, this was actually the case, but since you don’t know about the difference between DL and Embodied Language (EL), your situation gets worse, day by day. You may experience the same problems, the same misery, the same beliefs or the same meaninglessness, but everything gets more complicated, intense and destructive, because you don’t have any solution to your dilemmas. The only thing, which would really make a difference in your situation, is if you could stop your DL and have EL.

 

The reason, I write today about the situation, is because I read some news, that Biden held a press conference, in which he said to his audience, toward the end of his scripted speech: “I have to go to the situation-room. There is an issue, I need to deal with.” It is hilarious, there is even such a thing, as the situation-room, in which we, presumably, deal with issues. This ridiculous figure of speech, which obviously is a product of DL, seems to suggest, we can contain our issues, in some room, but nothing is further away from the truth. Our problems, literally, are all over the map and the only thing, we can do, is address them with our EL, instead of our usual DL.

 

Although everyone – with DL – keeps talking about our problems, there is, of course, only our personal problem, which is our mechanical use of DL. Each of us reaps the negative consequences of our own DL. This is the inevitable situation, everyone with DL is in: you remain busy with the DL of others, only to the extent, that you haven’t dealt with your own DL. Yes, this has nothing to do with politics. If you can’t acknowledge that, your situation will spiral out of control, no matter what you do. As a matter of fact, everything you do – with DL – makes things worse.

 

The precarious situation you are in, is that you still believe in all sorts of verbal constructs, which have absolutely no relationship to the reality of your life. If you consider it scientifically, you find, that your ability to speak, listen, read or write, have nothing to do with your religion, your country or whatever you claim to be, your identity. Yes, we talk a certain way, because of what we believe, but, obviously, we don’t talk, because of our belief. Likewise, although we only listen to what we want to hear, our country doesn’t cause us to listen, as minimally, as badly, as we do. Furthermore, what we read, doesn’t cause us to speak any differently. This is the greatest hoax, there has ever been: that our written language can change our spoken language. Surely, since we only know how to engage in DL, what we have written, is a product of our almost constant involvement in DL. However, our own written language – which comes about, when we engage in EL and write and read, what we have written about listening to ourselves while we speak – permanently changes how we deal with our language, as we prefer our EL over our DL.

 

We have all heard or read the saying: those who do not learn history, are doomed to repeat it. However, this statement typically describes the situation of someone, who is used to having DL. It is not history which repeats, but it is your language. With EL, such a statement would never be made. Besides, we are not condemned by our ignorance about our past, but by our inability to listen to ourselves, while we speak. It is our unnatural speech, in which we don’t listen to ourselves – because only listening to others is considered to be important – which sets the stage for how we use our language and regulate all of our other behavior. In effect, our lives are a total mess.

 

One of the main reasons, you haven’t discovered, for yourself, the immense difference between your DL and your EL, is because you are afraid, about the shocking realization, that your situation, with DL, is totally out of control. Somehow, you keep pushing  and dragging yourself through your dismal life, but you have no home in your own language. Surely, it is absurd and astonishing, everyone with DL claims to know what they are talking about, while they have  no clue about the magnificent workings of EL. Those who admit the great difference between DL and EL, certainly don’t have a rosy picture of the world, as only they can see the terrible situation everyone is in with their DL. With DL, you dissociate and cover things up, as you don’t know how to deal with it.

 

When we cannot get out of a threatening situation, we are traumatized, but yet, we get used to it, and, therefore, everyone is used to DL. We have never been able, for any significant amount of time, to deliberately, skillfully, consciously, stop our own DL and, consequently, we have never experienced the situation, in which EL could effortlessly continue.

 

When you finally are able to stop your DL, tears will flow, as there is a lot of catching up to do, but you will feel certain, that you have really entered a new situation. You take in this new situation, step back and become aware of the many implications of your ongoing EL. You are enlightened, the moment you stop your DL and have EL. Thus, your ongoing EL is your Language Enlightenment (LE). No attempt at lightening your situation will fall on deaf ears, as you  always listen to yourself. The fact, that no one with DL listens to you, stimulates you to start listening to yourself. With EL, you bravely accept the situation of who your really are and who you have always been.