Good,

 

Anyone who has understood something about Embodied Language (EL) will feel good, blessed and reassured to know that, because of our new language, everything can still work out. It's not about using certain words that I or others use, but about the words that suit you exactly and to speak in the way you would like.

 

Of course, everyone who has gone through the transformation from Disembodied Language (DL) to EL has a responsibility to create more EL for themselves in the first place, but also to let others know, that it is high time to stop DL, so we can finally start having some EL. This is an important moral issue we have not yet faced or able to read, because we have not yet written about what it is  like to hear ourselves when we really speak to ourselves and are therefore able, to listen to ourselves.

 

There is nothing else we can do, but try to talk to ourselves and thus hear, experience and admit, that we ourselves - and therefore everyone - can indeed recognize the great difference between DL and EL, but that we didn't have this distinction before, to be able to talk about our everyday way of speaking. There is no question about it, we usually have DL again and we rarely, if ever, get to have EL. There's something absolute about EL that can't be avoided.

 

You can only have EL after you have stopped your DL. To succeed in that, you will have to take yourself out of your own conditioning. You either do it or you don't. It is a matter of observing yourself, listening to yourself and hearing, whether you are doing one or the other. You could also say, that you misbehave in DL and you are well behaved in EL. It is very important to acknowledge both your DL and your EL. Only if you do that will your EL continue.

 

If you only want EL and don't want to admit you have DL, your conditioning to have DL continues. In other words, you suffer and you stay in trouble. You can easily give up trying to stop your own DL. You probably will, because your conditioning history is so powerful, yet there's nothing stopping you from experimenting again and experiencing the fruits of the work you've done. Everything you do to stop your DL will always, in some way, work out positively, even if those results only become visible or audible over time.

 

Of course, once you learn the difference between DL and EL, you only want to have EL, but wanting EL will frustrate you, as it implies that you are still denying your DL. When you have EL, you don't want EL at all, but you can have it, because you've done what you needed to do to have it: you’ve stopped your DL. Even if it seems very simple, there is an enormous amount of work and listening involved in stopping your DL, for your habitual way of speaking not only causes how you generally interact with your own language, but it also regulates all your other behaviors.

 

A certain behavioral pattern is associated with DL and a completely different behavioral pattern is associated with EL. Although it is revealing and interesting to have EL, we often lose ourselves in the conditioning-derived desire to want something special. Having had little or no EL, we're making EL into something, which it isn't at all. Our longing for something spiritual, for something mystical, for something new, for something we so to speak want with all our heart and soul, of which we can never seem to get enough, makes our DL repeat itself.

 

When we have EL, all kinds of unnecessary behavior disappear by itself. There is no longer any urge for anything else. The remarkable thing is that we feel reborn, because our language allows us to stay in the here and now. Even though many times we fail to stop our DL, every time we do what needs to be done, we manage to get it done, when we listen to ourselves. We can only hear ourselves if we talk to ourselves out loud. Nothing can be heard if we do not produce sound. Furthermore, there is nothing but noise and disaster to be heard as long as we continue to talk to ourselves with DL. We don't want to hear this, yet we unconsciously continue to make that nasty sound of our stress, dissatisfaction, fear, confusion, defensiveness and arrogance. We can tell ourselves, so to speak, we don't want DL, but it's not true, since we keep producing it anyway.

 

When we finally admit to ourselves, with great dismay, that we apparently prefer DL over EL, then a shift begins to take place, as we start to talk to ourselves about why this is so. Simply put, we keep having DL over and over because we obviously think of ourselves as bad, wrong, stupid, unworthy, unintelligent, or unimportant. In DL, what we say, what we can formulate, what we think – our language – is supposedly not important enough.

 

In DL, we can never really be ourselves and even though we write about it, our writing is a form of DL. Our writing is usually even less important than what we say, which is why we talk more often than we write. There are, of course, many writers, who believe they are writing from EL, but the fact remains that they always wrote from DL, because they have never engaged in speaking aloud to themselves and listening to the sound of their voice.

 

Once our EL increases, because we've stopped our DL - not just once or twice, but as many times as we need to, perhaps even hundred thousand times - then the importance of our writing about our EL increases, because it's the way is in which our EL stabilizes. While there is social reinforcement of our EL when we share it with others, it is not enough to allow our EL to continue. Therefore, it is necessary to enjoy EL, by writing about it, as that determines the self-reinforcing effects. Moreover, writings are objective, in that they can be read and experienced by others. Those who have never heard of EL can read about it and start their verification experiment. This writing is one of the very first writings about our new way of communicating. Once there are multiple descriptions about the huge difference between DL and EL, more and more people will read about it and start to engage in EL, because we are all enlightened and we unknowingly want to continue with our EL because of our original state, which is our Language Enlightenment (LE).