Different,

 

Once you can produce ongoing Embodied Language (EL), you will discover your Language Enlightenment (LE) and acknowledge – although you appear to be talking with others – actually, you are always only talking with yourself. Your new way of dealing with language, makes you leave behind – forever – your conditioning history of Disembodied Language (DL).

 

Surely, the change from your DL to your EL and the embrace of your LE, is a great transformation. You perceive not only yourself in a different manner, but also others. While it makes no sense, trying to  have EL with people, who keep having DL, there is something else you can do, as you realize, everyone is, albeit, unknowingly, also only always talking with themselves. People don’t know, but they are trying to talk with themselves. This knowledge helps you tremendously in dealing with the DL of everyone.

 

Since you really become a different person with EL, you now have new possibilities, which, before, you didn’t have. For instance, you will no longer waste your energy, trying to explain anything about EL or DL to anyone. To the contrary, you will only explain it to yourself, how EL and DL work and this is why many of your other behaviors also begin to change. Behaviors, associated with your conditioning with DL, all by itself, simply begin to fall by the way-side.  

 

Since you recognize and acknowledge, it is really true, everyone, always, unconsciously, only talks with themselves, you are now capable of saying something to people who have DL, which supports them in this process. In other words, you can say something to people with DL – which doesn’t get you involved in DL – which plants a seed of EL, because you were able to say something, which made them feel good.

 

I am not saying, you should expect miracles, but if you, because it is your job, have to spend a lot of time with people with DL, you are going to find, everything you say – which didn’t get you involved in DL – will evoke a better response from them, over time. Of course, I notice this myself in my own job and I feel so happy, that I am now able to accomplish this.  

 

Although people mainly have DL, they sometimes still try to talk with themselves – as it is the natural thing to do – but always fail and give up, as it goes against what they have learned. Their condition history compels them to talk with others. When they try to talk with themselves, they talk in the same way, as they have talked with others, but, of course, talking with ourselves is entirely different from talking with others. Anyone who knows about the difference between DL and EL, better not speak about this with people, who have DL, that he or she is spending a lot of time with. The better outcomes, I was referring to, are not talked about with anyone, since you only tell them to yourself. You keep them to yourself or only share them with someone you can have EL with. This strengthens and stabilizes your EL and your LE begins to shine, if you write about this, to yourself.

 

With your ongoing, effective, effortless EL, you’ll notice, your LE permeates more and more of all your other actions. Everything you do, but also what you no longer do, has the quality of your awareness. Although, you can feel all the stress, anxiety, fear, anger, frustration, shame or sadness of others, you are not in any way effected by it, as you continue with yourself and with your EL. Although you don’t engage in DL, you hear the DL of others, but you are not trying to do anything about it. Only those with DL, always try, in vain, to address the DL of others.

 

Once you succeed, in not getting involved anymore in DL and in continuing with your EL or in going back to it again, if you had lost track, you will feel happy, self-assured, proud, unburdened, free and satisfied, as you have become a different person. However, others can’t see you, in the way you see yourself, as they can’t hear you, in the way you can hear yourself. They notice, initially, unconsciously, but, eventually, consciously, that you make them feel different about themselves. At some point, they will say it to you, how much they appreciate you. In that moment, they unknowingly express their own EL, as they then actually speak with and validate themselves.