Dictator,

 

It has never been said like this before, but it was of course inevitable, that this would come up: anyone who is involved in Disembodied Language (DL) is in fact a dictator. Dictators are always talked about as if they were some sort of especially bad person, but if we have Embodied Language (EL), we know for sure, that everyone who has DL, is trying, in one way or another, to force others, with their way of talking, which remains out of reach, because it is always supposedly about some important belief, theory or political ideology. Someone who claims that his or her ideas are better or more important than others, is always trying to change the other person's behavior with his or her language.

 

Changing the behavior of others - which, with DL, always goes hand in hand with denying one's own behavior - is only successful to the extent, that one can put pressure on the other person and to the extent, the other person feels so intimidated and fearful, that he or she does as he or she is told to do.  Although people with their unconscious DL – which has never been discussed before – will continue to claim that I would force them to stop their DL, this is absolutely not true. I can't stop your DL, because only you can do that yourself. I can only write about it here and you can voluntarily read it, understand it and verify whether, what I say is true, for you.

 

A dictator cannot live without a constant show of power and you, whether you want to admit it or not, from the deep-rooted inferiority complex that always occurs in DL, are trying to pretend, you are superior to others. You do this by placing yourself above others and, if that fails, by withdrawing into your lonely, miserable, dissatisfied way of life. You, supposedly, get along with, and even appreciate other dictators and deal with them in a businesslike manner, because it benefits you, but you avoid and condemn all the dictators, who do not want to be ass-kissed, boot-licked or bedeviled by you.

 

Nothing I say or write has to do with the coercion you are used to with insidious DL. So it is true, you do not want to believe me, as I do not manifest myself as a dictator. Only if I present myself as an authority - and assert myself as an author, as an intellectual, as a teacher, as a philosopher, as a politician, as a spiritual leader or as someone, who has studied psychology - will you subordinate yourself to me, because I know, how to impress or amuse you with my knowledge, which is power.

 

You always look up to the dictator, whom you consider as your leader, example or your ideal. He or she is hierarchically above you and that is why you – in turn – place yourself above others who should look up to you. The social status, on the so-called social ladder, which I am talking about here, consists of all kinds of people, who try to have power over others. Someone like me, who continues with EL, is not concerned with that, because all he or she is busy with is shaping his or her Language Enlightenment (LE) with his or her EL. He or she does this not because of, but in spite of, others.

 

I'm not going to continue with my pleasant, clear and revealing EL to convince you of it, but because I want to, even though hardly anyone else wants to know anything about it. In DL, it is always the speaker, who demands the listener's attention with the sound of his or her voice. However, if there is no other listener present than the speaker him or herself, then that DL speaker - without realizing it - will force him or herself with his or her unnatural sounding phony voice, to do all sort of things, he or she does not even want to do, if he or she would have EL. Also, in DL, the self-experience-denying speaker, because of the nasty, tiring, coercive sound of his or her voice, refuses to do things that he or she would consider necessary, beneficial or healthy, if he or she had EL.

 

People say that we are either our own best friend or our own worst enemy, but I have never heard of anyone being their own most bombastic, arrogant, petty, vengeful, sadistic dictator. Why is it like that? With DL, we continue to maintain friendly relations with preferred dictators, as they ensure there is some kind of order in our otherwise utterly chaotic, fragmented and meaningless existence. Real order, however, never arises through force, but through our effortless language and sound, which represents our well-being and intelligence. We are not trying to have EL or to sound this way or that way, but we have EL and we enjoy our sound, because we are able to do so, because we no longer listen to some dictator, but because we finally, in full surrender, freedom and peace, are listening to ourselves.

 

In DL, it is the same whether a speaker demands the listener's attention with his or her superiority or with his or her inferiority, because in both cases, the listener is forced to pay attention to the speaker's negative, domineering actions. Although it seems obvious that speakers with positive feelings never manipulate or demand the listener's attention, because of our conditioning history, we regard DL as normal. Of course, we are only able to dominate each other, to keep each other small, to humiliate and silence each other with our negative feelings. It is strange that this has never been fully recognized. This is why we hear DL everywhere, but rarely do we hear any EL. If by any chance there is a moment of EL, it is already gone, before we have identified it as such, because we don't know how it works.

 

There is nothing to force on anyone with our positive feelings and when, with EL something is explained and understood, there is no fear or tension. Understanding itself is, of course, also something positive. Curiously, because we all, unknowingly, still want to have EL, we are unconsciously trying to interact with each other in the most positive way possible, but this is why our  DL has continued. EL is not a matter of doing it as often as possible. We either have EL or DL and to continue with EL, our DL has to stop. This means, that every speaker, by listening to him or herself, prevents him or herself from being a dictator.

 

To begin with – with EL – we 

no longer demand that others

 listen to us, because we 

listen to ourselves and 

we realize that we did 

not do this when we had

 DL. But we also discovered

 that we were not only 

a dictator to others, but

 also to ourselves. Thus,

 in EL, we are no longer 

trying to force ourselves,

 to do something and we

 are recovering from all

 those times we have done

 that. We have done ourselves

 a disservice by convincing

 ourselves, that all kinds 

of things would be good 

for us, but which, with our 

EL, turn out to be undermining. 

What we claimed to be was 

not true and we have lived 

a very twisted and difficult 

life with our DL for a 

very long time.

 

With EL, we can dispel the persistent myth that dictators – somehow miraculously – can come into power and that we can supposedly prevent this with our democratic governments. The transition from DL to EL is always immediate and refers to the functioning of our nervous system. We have DL as long as we feel threatened and when this is no longer the case, only then, our EL is possible. There is no doubt whatsoever, when we have EL, about how dictators come to power or how fascism, like some kind of virus, spreads. All of this is based on the language of fear, which I call DL, but which has never been mapped with EL, because we have continued to obsess over and get all riled up about those few individual dictators, these ruthless and oppressive rulers, who we believe are supposedly the cause are of all human misery. What a sick joke.

 

We are all equally responsible for the existence of all the dictators and all the dictatorships, because with our DL, we have accepted fear as the basis from which we have continued to communicate and live our lives. Anyone with DL is a dictator, who wants to get rid of dissidents who, like me, have EL. You don't want to talk to me, because that would mean the end of your conditioning with DL. If you have EL, your language of dictatorship is over.