Tuesday, March 7, 2023

 

Fine,

 

Everyone somewhere knows, we make a big mess together. With our usual way of talking, we all do our part and therefore, constantly, unconsciously, we contribute to the creation of the great chaos, about which we complain and keep fussing.

 

Even though we are, of course, somewhat aware of the enormous suffering, which is undoubtedly caused by us, so we can to feel, supposedly, fine, safe, healthy, rich, free, intelligent and better than others, yet no one really ever does anything about it, because what needs to be done – and what can be done – is simply too personal and too painful.

 

I know you don't want to read this, much less hear from yourself and admit that you are really the cause of all the misery. It really is all about you, who day after day, wastes your life on Disembodied Language (DL) and burdens others with your false way of talking. You can't harm me with it, since I - because of my Language Enlightenment (LE ) – only have Embodied Language (EL) and therefore stay far away from your obnoxious DL as far as possible.

 

You keep pretending that everything is possible, as if everything should be possible, but the undeniable fact will continue to haunt you, that no matter what, you will always experience the bad consequences of your own behavior. Even though you try to avoid or deny those consequences by acting like a victim and always blaming others for your conflicts, confusion and discontent, you are and you remain unhappy, insensitive and unaware of why you, mechanically, continue to act as if what you say has any meaning.

 

You never find out with your DL, there are many other possibilities for you that can only manifest themselves if you stop speaking in your usual way. It doesn't matter how you do it, but that's what needs to be done. If you've actually stopped your DL, then you’ll know it and if you're still not sure about it, then you can bet, you haven't managed to stop your DL yet. You know for sure you’ve stopped your DL when you hear yourself having EL. EL is completely different from DL, so different, you're perplexed, you’ve waited so long to stop your DL.

 

When we say someone is – so to speak – disturbed, as he or she believes religiously in something, which, however, is not true, we assume that – so to speak – is not meant literally , while it is precisely our obtrusive, unintelligent, stupid way of speaking that has caused this religious frenzy.

 

Let's consider a few sentences in which this saying (another interesting word) – so to speak – occurs, so that we come to realize, once and for all, however you look at it, is always about how we talk to each other – and, therefore, also to ourselves. Take the following short sentence: I tasted blood, so to speak. Leave aside for a moment, whether I actually tasted blood or whether this was just a metaphor, a figure of speech (nice word). Undoubtedly, these words were, at some point, said or heard by someone.

 

Now take this sentence: This should have helped him move forward, so to speak. Clearly, there was some talk about what someone did and that talk could be taken positively or negatively. If it didn't help (which should have helped him forward), it was talking that didn't help, but if it helped, an instructive way of speaking had a positive, desired or correct effect.

 

Let's look at one more sentence with – so to speak – in it. What I was trying to say, so to speak, was that I was right and those others hadn't understood. So here there can be no doubt, that it is about our way of speaking. I just mentioned the word metaphor, but the fact remains, we talk about a guy, who is tall like a tree, we talk to each other about how big someone is. No one is tall without any language and if we write or read about Alexander the Great, it is because this historical figure has lived and made a lot of people talk about him therefore many people have heard about him. And, if you've never heard of this man, it's because you either never read any history book or you were asleep in history class.

 

People wonder in despair, why human beings do such horrible things to each other, but no one draws the line to how we talk with each other and certainly not to how you talk to ourselves. You don't ever notice this, because you seem to be always talking to others and thus keeping busy with others, but, even if you never look at it this way, whatever you say to another, you say to yourself, of course.

 

What you say is who you are, with you head split in two, with you head against the wall, tomorrow you will be sour. This is what we used to say as a child, when someone said ugly things about you. We do not see what we are doing to ourselves with our judgment of the other, as speaking is supposedly always only about speaking to others, but never about speaking with ourselves. The rhyme portrays  we are insensitive and unconscious about ourselves and thus – through our language – we feel separated from that so-called other. Because of how we handle language, there is division and conflict between you and me. You judge others, without realizing, your language sets you apart from others, from the world, but also from love, freedom and truth.

 

As long as others continue to do what we want them to do, we can of course - with our DL - continue to believe we are certainly very civilized, polite, kind, reasonable and conscious people, but when others do not do what they are told (by us), when they do not abide by the laws and rules of our culture, when they do not respect us, by working for us, by pulling the coals out of the fire for us, by showing their loyalty to us, prove and show, we can trust them, then none of our spurious ways of speaking appear to be true. The old saying, actions speak louder than words, implies that others should feel indebted to us, to do what we want them to do for us. So, forget about all your talk, you know what you have to do.

 

Your so-called conscience is the reason you have forgotten, that your usual language splits you in half. The blame you place on the other, because he or she does something that you don't agree with, because you are supposedly better than he or she, causes your separation from who you really are. You are not only separate from the other person, but also from yourself. You have always looked up to some saint, sage, mystic or enlightened one, someone of whom it was said: what he says, is us ourselves, but your faith, has never, because of your prayers, rituals and meditations, led to a revaluation of the sound experience of your voice while speaking. When you can step out of the self-created hell of your meaningless DL, as you've heard your own vibration, there will be liberation and forgiveness.

 

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