We,

 

We are in this together. I am writing this and you are reading this. I have written, for you, this expression of my Embodied Language (EL) about my Language Enlightenment (LE). By reading, you can understand and realize, you have been wasting your life with Disembodied Language (DL). I have been behaving as you do, but I no longer behave like that. You can, as I did, stop your DL, become aware of your LE and have, from now on, EL. Moreover, we can have EL. This writing, is my invitation and challenge to you.

 

We are going to have EL, as DL is outdated and no longer working. It used to work, as the structures, which made us adhere to the hierarchy, were still in place. However, with the advance of our technology, these structures have disappeared. No matter how much we try to go back to what was, it will never be the same as it was before. The time for those, who were supposedly powerful, superior and important and able to dominate, those who were meaningless, powerless and unimportant, is over. No speaker can force any listener to remain forever a listener. In EL, every listener becomes a speaker and every speaker becomes a listener. We will enjoy this turn-taking.

 

In DL, we always only speak as citizens of a country, as believers in superstitious beliefs, as voters of a political party or as adherends of some theory, but in EL, we say new things, because we are not bound by the past, as we have emerged from our conditioning history. When we continue to have EL together, we will be able express and be aware of our LE and we will create a different world, than the one we have created with our DL. The world will be ours, as my world will be yours and your world will be mine.

 

Right now, your world isn’t my world, because our DL and EL do not mix. I live the good life with my EL, while you live in misery with your DL. When you will stop denying this, we will have ongoing EL together. Your world never was mine and could never be mine, no matter, how hard I have tried to impose it on myself. However, my world can become yours, as in EL you will have stopped imposing anything on yourself, as well as on others. Right now, it is incomprehensible to you, there can be a way of dealing with language in which nothing is imposed on anyone. Welcome to my world, which is the natural and effortless reality, created by our nervous system, when it perceives no longer any threat. Yes, we embody our language.

 

In EL, we are going to laugh and cry together about the absurdity, chaos and cruelty of our history with DL. How could we establish, let alone, maintain, good relations with each other, if we, unconsciously,  kept disembodying our language? Moreover, how are we ever going to be on the so-called same page, where we agree with each other, because we are no longer threatening each other? We’ve never even asked and answered these questions for ourselves.

 

We can only come together, if we, each individually, do the necessary work, to reliably make it possible. The essential steps, each of us will have to take, in order to be able to have ongoing EL, isn’t a political, religious, philosophical, psychological, intellectual, sexual, theoretic, scientific, racial, economic or cultural group-phenomenon, but a novel process of becoming familiar with our own language.

 

We have never really spoken with each other – or with ourselves – in such a way, that the purpose of our conversation was to listen to ourselves. To the contrary, we only know the so-called interaction, in which listening to others, is compulsory. This way of talking not only has prevented us from listening to ourselves, but it also gave rise, to the creation and the perception – with our language – of our reality, which simply isn’t true. Once we listen to ourselves and engage in ongoing EL, we experience the great relief of no longer being oppressed by our own DL.

 

We are free only, when we hear, how we use our own language. We have ears and we can hear, in the sound of our voice, when we embody our language  or when this is not the case. Since EL is unknown to us, we don’t realize, neurologically, we have always agreed with each other, about when we feel safe to socially engage. We are used to and conditioned by DL, which is the ineffective, yet only possible way of dealing with language, when we, autonomically,  automatically and reactively, flee, fight or freeze.

 

We are going to talk and come out of the dark ages of our DL, as our EL will allow us to get to know ourselves, that is, our LE can only be revealed by our EL. The self-knowledge, which is acquired due to our involvement in EL is permanent, as we can really say what is true for us, as individuals. In other words, the positive consequences of EL, are instantly there and will create a future of health and happiness.

 

Although I have written this for you, I have written it for myself, as this is what I know to be true. I live in Chico, California and don’t see any reason, why the local or national news media, Butte College (from which I graduated with an AA degree in Social and Behavioral Science and where I taught psychology for many years) or California State University Chico (from which I graduated with a BA in Psychology), shouldn’t invite me, to talk about DL, EL and LE, as this is the quintessential issue of our time. Also, I hold a Masters of Arts from Ryokan University, as well as a Master of Science in Clinical Psychology from Palo Alto University, but never received any sign of interest from these pretentious institutions in this important matter. I state my case clearly: we are going to have a completely new paradigm.

 

We are listening to all kinds of idiots, who can only give us more DL and know nothing about EL. We are not moving forward with our lives, as long as we remain trapped by our conditioning history with DL. We cannot be ourselves with DL and, inevitably, are trying to be something we are not. This problem is much bigger than so-called gender-dysphoria about which we hear a lot, but which is just another failed attempt – and there have historically been many – at addressing and changing our language. Yes, we have, until my discovery of EL, been unsuccessful to stop our DL, but those who have taken my concept seriously, have always succeeded, because EL works.