True,

 

It is really true, when I say what I feel, you reject me. I am okay with it, I am used to it. To me it is not a big deal, as I know what is happening. However, for you, it is confusing, that what is real is not reinforced, but punished. You feel totally embarrassed, confused and upset, if people don’t reciprocate your feelings, but I have so often gone through this experience, that I have come to expect that you can’t validate my feelings. 

 

Once you come to know about your Embodied Language (EL), you will come to terms with the fact that other people are unable to relate to it. They talk about their religion, their values, their beliefs and their identity, but they can’t really talk about their feelings, as that is taboo. It is an enormous smoke-screen. We believe, we need to continue to talk about what we have already been talking about, but the real conversation is, of course, always about what we haven’t been talking about.  

 

We get together, to sing, to pray, to have a good time, to meditate, to let each other know, that we believe in the same thing, but the fact remains, we are on our own, we create and live in our own world and our usual phony way of talking is not is going to be able to change that.  However, if we listen to ourselves while we speak and engage in EL, something different happens, which instantly, effortlessly and surprisingly changes everything: we have a conversation, which takes us out of our conditioning, as we produce a different sound.

 

The point of EL is, that we are not regurgitating our old, retarded, idiotic, self-denying belief in what we feel, we are supposed to say, as we only say what we want to say, what we can say and what we were bound to say, as we finally allow ourselves to say it to ourselves. There is, in that sense, no mystery in EL, as everything becomes clear. Initially, we are impressed with what EL reveals, but as we engage in it more often, it is clear, that we are communicating our reality, which isn’t very pretty.

 

When we first start with EL, we can’t help but admit our totally life sucks, as we finally express to ourselves everything which needed to have our attention, but which couldn’t get our attention with our Disembodied Language (DL). When we take our first steps in EL, we  realize, we have always had DL, but now our DL has stopped, because we ourselves have stopped it. We cry and admit that we were suffering unnecessarily, but we are coming around to ourselves and we are happy this is happening. Yes, we are happy, we can acknowledge that have been our own worst enemy. With EL, we finally are allowed to love ourselves, as we create and maintain the situation in which we can feel this way. We have strict and well-defined boundaries, as we know that our equanimity depends on the continuation of our EL.    

 

When we have EL, we completely stop pretending that it is normal to have DL. It isn’t normal, it is abnormal, although we engage in it every day. Our usual DL is a denial of our intelligence. We act as if we are dumb, but we aren’t dumb, we are just trying to, supposedly, fit in. Of course, we never really fit in, we only just pretend to fit in. Those who are still doing their best, to fit in, simply don’t know, that they are forcing themselves have DL, while in fact, they would like to have EL.

 

There really is so much more to say, than what we allow ourselves and each other to say. Saying what we can say and want to say, is not some ideal, but a possibility, we r achieve or miss out on. Due to DL, we miss out on what we are capable of. We don’t give ourselves the chance to say it, we don’t take the time to say it, we don’t pay attention enough to what we want to say, to be able to say it. We can still change this and this opportunity always challenges us, but only someone who knows and is familiar with EL, stimulates us to change ourselves.

 

When you read this, don’t go on again with other things, but contact me (skype:limbicease) and talk with me, so that this change can begin to happen. It will happen, I am absolutely sure of that. However, it couldn’t happen and it never happened with your outdated, superficial DL. Your DL has to stop and you must do this yourself. Only if you have done that, you can have ongoing EL and become aware of your Language Enlightenment (LE). This is a different of enlightenment than all the nonsense  you have read in books or heard in lectures, as it is about how you use your language. If you read these words, if you have found your way to my blog, you are ready to hear this, by saying all of this to yourself.